Roxy24 Posted January 10, 2009 Posted January 10, 2009 The man I'm madly in love with is slipping away because of me. He had cheated on me in the past and I decided that he is the one I want to be with so I wanted to make it work. It's not working. I feel like I'm trying but it's not enough. My head just wont stop and I'm becoming difficult. He asks what I want him to do and I give him certain things that would help but he refuses to do them because "it wont help, after those there will be more". I just don't know what to do anymore. What can I do? I don't want to lose him and I want my sanity back.
joybean72 Posted January 10, 2009 Posted January 10, 2009 Roxy...#1. He cheated with you on his wife. #2. Now he's "cheating" with his wife??? #3. More than likely got kicked out by his wife, probably not the story he told you? #4. You haven't seen divorce papers. Sorry to tell you this, but you are being used as a fall back girl. Oh...and #5. You both don't trust each other. Why not find yourself and honest decent man that will & can love you and ONLY you?!? This man only loves himself! Let his wife deal with him if that is what she chooses. (Guaranteed he'll do it again to her with another woman in the future...or you if that's what you choose!) JMO
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