Hexaggrm Posted January 10, 2009 Posted January 10, 2009 Ok, so i have been seeing this girl for about 3 weeks. we get along with eachother pretty well, are very opened with our minds to eachother and even her and my friends can see that we have a Good connection. The only problem is that i asked her out and she said that she didnt want a relationship right now. But it puzzles me that shes very touchy, and close to me, Like a GF would be. We havent kissed, or had sex at all. She does talk to other guys, but isnt touchy feely or anything like that with them, just with me. Even her friends say that there is something up. I was wodnering if anyone of you have seen this Be4 and care to explain whats going on. She even wanted to go out of town just her and me. Drive all the way and stay a day and come back. Im like ?@_@?
Author Hexaggrm Posted January 10, 2009 Author Posted January 10, 2009 what??? What do you mean by that?
zenith Posted January 10, 2009 Posted January 10, 2009 it's hard to tell from the info that you gave us here.. but my guess is that she doesn't like you that way you are just her friend
Author Hexaggrm Posted January 10, 2009 Author Posted January 10, 2009 ok wel... The basic principle is that she treats me like a Boyfriend, but she isnt my girlfriend. I told her if she wanted to go out with me and she said she doesnt want a relationship atm. Though she cooks especially for me, when she gets mad at me, its a more serious thing than with her other friends. and she calls me to see her everyday and be with her cuz she misses me.
zenith Posted January 10, 2009 Posted January 10, 2009 I guess you are asking these questions about her intentions... because you like her, yeah? make a move, man... don't mess about! don't ask her if she wants to be your GF, watch her action, not her words if you know what I mean
Author Hexaggrm Posted January 10, 2009 Author Posted January 10, 2009 Actually thats my problem. I ahvent had many girlfriends throughout my life, And i havent dated in three years. So i really dont know what to do. "watch her action, not her words if you know what I mean" . Seriously seriously, I have no clue Lol.
zenith Posted January 10, 2009 Posted January 10, 2009 "watch her action, not her words if you know what I mean" . Seriously seriously, I have no clue Lol. OK, for example if she says 'I'm not ready for a relationship'' this means either ''I don't want to have a relationship with you'' or ''I want to take things slow'' depending on her actions... you have to figure this one out for yourself
Author Hexaggrm Posted January 10, 2009 Author Posted January 10, 2009 I see. Thanks, il have to obeserve more Much much thnx:laugh:
Star Gazer Posted January 10, 2009 Posted January 10, 2009 ok wel... The basic principle is that she treats me like a Boyfriend, but she isnt my girlfriend. Hmm. Well, I do believe one of the first requirements of treating someone like a BF is to kiss them. She's not doing that though... I have to agree that she sees you as a FRIEND. Not a boyfriend.
Author Hexaggrm Posted January 10, 2009 Author Posted January 10, 2009 well, i found out this from her friends *shes not really into Kissing alot, but she loves to cuddle and be felt. most of her past Ex's never liked the fact that she didnt like kissing* I dont mind that at all, Cuz you can teach a old dog new tricks, if you really try.
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