Blessings Posted January 10, 2009 Posted January 10, 2009 Do you ever truly get over this pain? I mean like REALLY EVER forget about it? I'm okay in a way,but certain places and certain songs that remind me of him still bother me. Memories of him still hurt. I dont cry, I'm not depressed...i dont know...it's a weird feeling to explain..it hurts...ain't it some sh*t when you still care about somebody who doesn't care about you anymore. Such a *****y position to be in, being betrayed and left by the one you love, they're out there having fun & feeling no remorse while you still love them. So unfair! Blah!
DSM-IV Tom Posted January 10, 2009 Posted January 10, 2009 Yes, you really, really do. And you end up 100% stronger too because of it. There is a ying to every yang. Sure, you are facing extreme pain (or at least were) and now you feel the after math conditional pain... but it has two sides to it; the part that hurts, and the part that makes you stronger. The pain is the ying, and the strength that comes from it is the yang. Embrace the pain.
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