tim-nice-but-dim Posted January 9, 2009 Posted January 9, 2009 I 'll try and be brief 5 years ago I had a 3 month stormy relationship. When it finished it felt like I'd been hit by a train. Pleased it was finished but I fancied her like hell. Anyways, she was in touch by text and phone for one reason or another for 2 years then nothing till 6 months ago when she approached me in a cafe in town. She announces that she still has feelings for me and that a bit of her still loves me. But she says that she doesn't want me back. I almost fainted....... She has a partner ( and child ) so I don't get why she said what she said. Over the last two months I've seen her in town, or the cafe, and always she says hi or beams me a smile despite her bf being there. It's kind of embarrassing for him ( and me ). Big question is this......am I missing something here, do all women say these things or was she genuinely offloading some emotional baggage? Think I'll lie low for a while as I feel my button is getting pressed. Is she sounding me out? Your answers please, ladies!
Geishawhelk Posted January 9, 2009 Posted January 9, 2009 Her comments and behaviour were both highly inappropriate and she should never have said what she did. Strikes me (although I could be waaaaaay wrong here) she may be priming you for a bit of fun. When you see her next, you need to blank her off, and ignore her. Give her a cold look, and turn away. Don't react, don't respond, don't give her any impression that you would encourage such a thing. Don't text her, reply to her or connect with her in any way. If she tries to talk to you, tell her you think her comments and behaviour are inappropriate. Would she like you to tell her BF what she said to you?
Author tim-nice-but-dim Posted January 9, 2009 Author Posted January 9, 2009 It's odd behaviour after 5 years. I'd bet that she's not happy in her current relationship and trying me out. The b'f must know, surely. She's not too discrete if I'm around. I know when she's likely to make an appearance so I'll make other plans for a while as I can't be bothered ( well, I do still fancy her but I've no intention of getting involved again as I think she COULD be a psycho)
Hexaggrm Posted January 10, 2009 Posted January 10, 2009 Actually i went throught that, As a matter of fact its still going on! What she wants Is u! She misses the emotions and chemistry you had togeather in the past and is completly in Broken pieces with her current Partner. She doesnt like the relationship she is in and wants to go back to the good life with you. it happend to me, where my Ex Ex text me these exact words (you know, I LOVE my new bf way better and he treats me with soo much love, im so happy with him and were gunna get married soon.) I kept getting stupid texts and me Minding my own bussiness. stupid @%^&* Like this( omg common grow up and move on! Stop dwelliong in the past its OVER!) and im like *?????? ook...........* Till this day She still wants to talk to me to fix her wrong, but im not giving her that chance. I dont know ur complete story. but if you really Want her, Let her go. It took me 2 years to let go of the feelings i had for my ex Ex. but its worth it.
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