mortensorchid Posted January 9, 2009 Posted January 9, 2009 I had made a connection with someone on line a few weeks ago. We had exchanged emails, then we talked on the phone. We had good conversations, talking about just stuff. I let him into my ice fortress, as I have been working on being as friendly as possible (see previous posts). No more of this "enter at your own risk" mentality I may or may not have been showing others. So we had talked on the phone yesterday, he asked if I wanted to get together this Saturday night to meet. I said yes. We had yet to decide on a time and place. Early this morning (it was 2 in the morning, as I am now in a nocturnal state being on winter break for the last few weeks), I sent him a text message. We had been talking about places and things around the city, and we said we couldn't remember this one bar on a street. This made me happy to hear this, by the way, because he used to not just frequent but live in a neighborhood that is my haunt. In the town where I live, just for background, if you live in the suburbs people don't go into the city for entertainment and vice versa. But I digress ... It suddenly came to me what the name of the bar was, and I texted it to him. At 2:48 am, he texted me back "Kort I think you're cool but I'm going to Mexico for 4 days". First of all, could someone tell me if "Kort" is some text lingo that I'm not familiar with. Hopefully it's not someone else's name he was confusing me with. And second, have I been blown off? I think this is a little strange.
musicmaker Posted January 9, 2009 Posted January 9, 2009 I would just ask. If he's going to Mexico to have dinner with his ex or some other bull****, then you know where you are. Maybe there's a suitable reason and he just picked a really odd way of telling you. Hmm, I do seem a bit naive, don't I? But what can it hurt?
SoulSearch_CO Posted January 9, 2009 Posted January 9, 2009 I think he just called you by somebody else's name. Man, it is way too easy for people to get into trouble over text. I think a phone call would be suitable. Because the text was pretty cryptic, IMO. I would just call to clarify with him. Chat a little and then out of the blue ask, "Who's Kort?" and see what his response is. But then also ask about Mexico. His response was just really odd - just call him. Who knows? Maybe he was blowing off some other girl and mixed up her number with yours. LOL You never know until you talk to him.
Citizen Erased Posted January 9, 2009 Posted January 9, 2009 Unless his nickname for you is the Kentucky Orthopedic Rehab Team, that was meant for someone else or he meant to put a different word in there... Either way it sounds like you've been blown off. Very abrupt text.
Author mortensorchid Posted January 9, 2009 Author Posted January 9, 2009 I agree, I have been blown off. I won't respond to this via email, text or a phone call. If he wants to call me when he gets back from Mexico (or whatever bull**** he's doing) he can call me.
mr.dream merchant Posted January 9, 2009 Posted January 9, 2009 A guy can't go to Mexico without catchin some attitude from a chick he's not even that serious with? Holy ****. Is your name Courtney by chance? That's the only thing I can think of.
Adri Ana Posted January 9, 2009 Posted January 9, 2009 Mortensorchid, your decision is right . He will come back and explain you everything himself. Beware,he may lie,but still we cant lose all trust in people because of some One thing . Until this One thing gets multiplied . U know this .
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