knowing when its good to make your move.

[finkelstein]

heres the deal. im not too relitivley shy of a guy, i can flirt a bit and make the small talk n stuff, but some girls can just bring it out. when it comes to reading signs i am a complete idiot, literaly. so the situation is that i had these two friends that were dating for about 9 months and split up about a week ago. i was friends with the guy for about 2 months more than her before they started dating. and in the past 2 months they had realized they've been having issues and bolth individually came to me for advice. wich isnt unuasual becasuse of its frequency. but over the period of time i lost touch with the kid and was better friends with her, and i mean we just talked about anything and everthing. our sexual fantasys and life goals etc. it seems bad because they were dating but i never let it go any farther, ive been cheated on once or twice and it sucks so i dont do it. in this time i got feelings for her and even told her so, she appeared to feel the same but didnt know what to do so we dismised it. so we hang out and talk for weeks and they break up. but now thats shes available i dont know what to think or do. we still talk and stuff, i get the impression shes wants to have sex with me but just getting out of the relationship shes reluctant.she made it clear that she " doesnt want to date for a while but sex is ok, hehe" so is that supposed to be a hint .if not, how long is a good time to wait? i dont want to push to soon but i dont want to have her lose interest. i still dont even know for sure how she still feels about him. any advise will be greatly appreciated thanks.

[CrashLanded87]

Yeah, if they just recently broke up, that really wouldn't be a good idea... Give it some time... talk to her... Find out how she feels... And adjust to the situation

[finkelstein]

yea thats was good advise. to bad im a moron and fu*k*d it all up Great to be me today:D:D:D:D

 

 

 

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