happyshopper Posted January 9, 2009 Posted January 9, 2009 He didn't call me for 3 weeks even Christmas,Please tell me? I started date him since August, We intimated mid Oct. And around December, he started to act little different,(Like showing up late, don't call when he said he would), He introduce me to all his friends and some family, although he is holding me and kissing me in front of everybody, but he never introduce me as his girlfriend. By mid Dec. He waited two days to call me back, when he called, I was really upset and told him I don't care if he call anymore, He didn't call for 3 weeks(not even Christmas), I cry everyday, but never contact him, On Jan. 4 he called , I didn't pick up, He text, He called again next day, I didn't pick up, He text me ask " R U OK" , Today(Thursday), I text back "I am fine" , I am so confuse, I love him but I don't understand how can he wait 3 weeks to call me again? Does he care about me? Is he going though the phase affarid of commitment like those relationship book? if he doesn't care about me, I don't want to see him anymore, I don't want to get hurt or get use for sex....
birdie Posted January 9, 2009 Posted January 9, 2009 I know someone like him too. It doesn't matter why he didn't call you, the point is that he thought it was ok for him to disappear without an explanation and didn't care how you felt. He clearly has some issues and major communication problems. Walk away
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