The Young Son Posted January 8, 2009 Posted January 8, 2009 My girlfriend of 3 months broke off our Long Distance Relationship because it was too hard for her not seeing me constantly. I did the bad thing and told her I loved her and made a desperate attempt to stop it. She had not spent enough time with me to fall in love with me as we had only seen each other once during the relationship. She said all of her feelings were still there, but unless one of us was willing to relocate, it couldn't work. Neither of us is at this point in time, perhaps for a year or two. We parted on good terms, despite her being weirded out that I could fall in love with her so quickly. I really value her as friend and it would seem cold to just cut her off completely. I decided to go NC anyway to see what would happen. She contacted me a week later asking how my new year was. I responded as a friend would. Then NC for another week. She contacted me again asking how I was settling in (i just moved towns). I responded. I know my responding is probably seen as wrong, but we didn't part on bad terms and we both agreed there was hope in the future for us, just not right now. The thing is, I feel like I am moving on and living my life. But when she texts me I get all confused again. Should I go NC and cut off all contact? Or should I just live my life and only text her when she texts me first? It's just so confusing. One more thing. If I asked her not to text me anymore, she WOULDN'T. I know this because we are still friends and she still cares enough to not put me through that. Thoughts?
Knight_Ctrl Posted January 9, 2009 Posted January 9, 2009 I don't think there are any requirements for qualifying for NC. Do you feel like you want to get over her? Go NC, if you can somehow manage to be friends (hasn't really ever worked for me, but wont mean it cant for you) then continue being friends. Its really whatever you want buddy.
Ezekiel1337 Posted January 9, 2009 Posted January 9, 2009 No contact will just help you forget her. Its for you, not for her. Shes gone. Dont hope for anything, that way if something comes up, its a surprise. The other way around will end up 99% of the time in disappointment and heartbreak.
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