Eweezy Posted January 8, 2009 Posted January 8, 2009 Why do women bring their girlfriends with them on first dates. This doesn't happen very often, but it does happen. Some of you might ask how old are these girls well mostly in their early 20's. I wouldn't mind later on, but it is a total turn off to me when women do that. It comes off to me as she isn't mature enough to go on her own.
lightning spades Posted January 8, 2009 Posted January 8, 2009 Er, this never happened to me before. Are you sure you're conveying your intentions correctly? Maybe they thought it was a group hang out instead of a date.
Phateless Posted January 8, 2009 Posted January 8, 2009 It's her initial plan to end the date early in case it doesn't go well. Either that or she doesn't want it to be a date. How are you meeting these girls? I once went on a date and her phone rang. I smiled and said "is that your fake emergency check-in in case i turn out to be creepy?" and she laughed and said "i guess you do understand women. i'll tell her it's going well." we ended up meeting up with friend later on and she liked me too.
Untouchable_Fire Posted January 8, 2009 Posted January 8, 2009 Why do women bring their girlfriends with them on first dates. This doesn't happen very often, but it does happen. Some of you might ask how old are these girls well mostly in their early 20's. I wouldn't mind later on, but it is a total turn off to me when women do that. It comes off to me as she isn't mature enough to go on her own. I hate it when that happens as well! That's why I now make sure to bring enough rufees for both.
kashmir Posted January 8, 2009 Posted January 8, 2009 This happened to me twice. The first time it turned out to be the girl's lesbian girlfriend, so she was obviously screwing with me. It's actually a kinda long but funny story. Second time it happened wasn't so funny. I asked this girl out to lunch and she agreed. She ended up bringing her friend. I was outgoing with both of them, but this was back when I was really shy and just started being around girls, so I was obviously a bit tense. Well, her friend kept trying to comment on my behavior. She kept asking over and over why I was shaking. I'm a bit more jittery than everyone else all the time for some reason...I never notice it but other people do. Anyway, they were starting to get on my case about that. Then as I was talking, the girl I asked out interrupted me and rudely said, "Shouldn't you be going now?" I hesitated a bit, glared at both of them, and just said, "Goodbye ladies...wasn't a pleasure meeting you." If I was in that situation now I would have handled it a lot better, but I was shy and new to things and these bitchy girls did whatever they could to exploit that for their own egos.
Author Eweezy Posted January 8, 2009 Author Posted January 8, 2009 It never turned out bad for me. I did end up dating these girls, but it just feels like thats some high school thing to do. This happened once with an lesbanese girl and another time with another girl from montenegro(Eastern European Country). My point of view of this were they were just not experienced with dating. It annoys me most when they don't notify me that they will bring a friend along, and when i'am there I'am like . This stuff was in the past, but just incase for future references I just wondered why they would do that. Damn Kashmir those girls were brutal to you.
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