hoartiosans Posted January 8, 2009 Posted January 8, 2009 Don't you hate when you have dreams about them...ruins the day from the beginning.
DSM-IV Tom Posted January 8, 2009 Posted January 8, 2009 Yes definitely. Try this, someone told me about this a week or two ago and it has worked. As you're trying to fall asleep, try to manually clear your mind. As in, seriously, try to clear it. Remove all memories, and imagine clarity and nothing in specific. (But steer clear of things you want to avoid dreaming of especially). It has helped me. Haven't dreamt of her since I don't think. At least much more frequently.
Knight_Ctrl Posted January 9, 2009 Posted January 9, 2009 I've found my dreams have gone in cycles just like my healing process. Initially my dreams were full of sad and depression. I would have dreams about us getting back together only to wake knowing it wasn't real. Then I had some about us fighting or me hurting her. Then I had dreams about us breaking up and me moving on and hating her. And most recently dreams about me literally kicking the **** out of her new b/f who stole her from me. Oh well.....patterns are patterns I guess.
IcemanJB Posted January 9, 2009 Posted January 9, 2009 Yes, dreams suck hard. I haven't had one about her in a couple weeks though. All of them so far have been happy dreams about her and waking up is just awful...I kinda wish I were pissed off at her or something in the dreams. They will fade in time...
Kage111 Posted January 9, 2009 Posted January 9, 2009 Haha, I've had plenty of dreams where I get back together with my ex... and sometimes I wake up happy. Then I call her and see what she's up to, ask if she wants to go to a movie or anything. Then she says "WTF We're not together anymore! Stop calling me!" Then I get sad when I realize it was only a dream... But it's still nice to wake up happy every once in a while.
Author hoartiosans Posted January 9, 2009 Author Posted January 9, 2009 ...most recently dreams about me literally kicking the **** out of her new b/f who stole her from me. Oh well.....patterns are patterns I guess.I had a dream last night with me kicking the crap out of her new boyfriend, felt good:laugh:
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