cynthialc2006 Posted January 8, 2009 Posted January 8, 2009 I have been seeing this married man for 15 months he is alot younger than me. I just found out he is Bi and has been seeing men and me and another girl I didnot know about. Aparently there are many more. I asked him if he knew these men they approached me on Yahoo messenger said they are inolved with him and he gave them my ID. I said I doubt would give out my ID to you. Then the marriedman I see said to me I am not having sex with any man. He said these guys are messing with me I don't know them. But I went to actions on Yahoo messenger and clicked on to send a message and my contact list came up and these guys were on it because they contacted me before and the married man is on my friends list on yahoo so he has to know them they are his friends on his yahoo. So he lied to me and is denying this all to me. Its such a big mess. I know someone else that knows him but asn't talked to him or saw him in a year. He told me he and him the married one has been going on line and meeting girls and one girl the married man had met a girl and had unprotected sex with this was 3 yars ago I did not know him then. She got pregant but the child was another man and not his. But said she thought it could be his. Now his friend told me his wife doesn't know a thing. He tells her he is working and then meets these people. I see him on his way to work and when he is in town working I see him on his luch when he is on his way to a meeting. I just don't know he has the time to see all these people married has a demanding architect job 2 kids wife etc.I really care about him I want to stop seeing him for what I know now but I am in too deep and I can't stop seeing him. I am all confussed. cynthialc2006
LavendarGirl Posted January 8, 2009 Posted January 8, 2009 Cynthia, Please tell me you're kidding, right, when you say you are confused about what to do? This guy puts the term PLAYER on a whole new level. How in the world does he even have time for the wife/kids? There is no reason in the world that you need to put up with this sort of treatment. Please end it now. This is insane!
bentnotbroken Posted January 8, 2009 Posted January 8, 2009 Why don't you just go get a tainted vile of blood and inject, it will be quicker. Where is your functioning brain. Not only are you one of many on the Russian roulette wheel, you know he is exposing his wife to the same crap. My goodness, I truly don't get the humanity and common sense of some people.
frannie Posted January 9, 2009 Posted January 9, 2009 I just don't know he has the time to see all these people married has a demanding architect job 2 kids wife etc.I really care about him I want to stop seeing him for what I know now but I am in too deep and I can't stop seeing him. I am all confussed. Well he's obviously got some 'issues' to say the least. Are you still having sex with him? Can you get yourself tested for stds? Apart from that, has your opinion of him not changed..? Did you feel you love him, and do you still after how he's being doing this to you? I'm sorry this has happened to you.
Author cynthialc2006 Posted January 10, 2009 Author Posted January 10, 2009 Yes I am still having sex with him I saw him Wednesday morning. We see each other once a week sometimes 2 times a week. I found out he is bi he said he isn't but I know he is. He is seeing a latina girl 19 also with the 2 marred men. The married men haven't seen him in several weeks I communicate with the one married men. He told me he the guy I see the latino married man that is 30 saw her this week after he saw me. He saw her after work he sees me in the morning and at lunch time. I know its all insane. I would like to stop seeing him like hiis sex. He has been seeing me for 15 months The married man told me he met the latina 19 year old in june 2008 on line I met him on line too even the married men he met on line. I do care about him I heard he know it too. Its so complicated. I have not got checked either for STD's I am at the point I am older I am single I have a job that isn't that good and I don't have a car I had to sell it because of money trouble. He the marrried man does not help me financially. I don't ask him I jsut couldn't I doubt he could help. He has a home, wife 2 kids and car and he is an architect I never brought mone in te picture from the beginning. I just found out from the other married man he is bi on Dec 15th I didn't believe it at first but I have proof now hard to explain it. I love him I can't let him go now I am not ready to say goodbye I would be devastated.
bentnotbroken Posted January 10, 2009 Posted January 10, 2009 Yes I am still having sex with him I saw him Wednesday morning. We see each other once a week sometimes 2 times a week. I found out he is bi he said he isn't but I know he is. He is seeing a latina girl 19 also with the 2 marred men. The married men haven't seen him in several weeks I communicate with the one married men. He told me he the guy I see the latino married man that is 30 saw her this week after he saw me. He saw her after work he sees me in the morning and at lunch time. I know its all insane. I would like to stop seeing him like hiis sex. He has been seeing me for 15 months The married man told me he met the latina 19 year old in june 2008 on line I met him on line too even the married men he met on line. I do care about him I heard he know it too. Its so complicated. I have not got checked either for STD's I am at the point I am older I am single I have a job that isn't that good and I don't have a car I had to sell it because of money trouble. He the marrried man does not help me financially. I don't ask him I jsut couldn't I doubt he could help. He has a home, wife 2 kids and car and he is an architect I never brought mone in te picture from the beginning. I just found out from the other married man he is bi on Dec 15th I didn't believe it at first but I have proof now hard to explain it. I love him I can't let him go now I am not ready to say goodbye I would be devastated. Don't say good-bye to him then, just get your affairs in order for when you will say good-bye permanently. This story is so jacked up, I suspect a troll, but who knows. There are some truly f-uped people in the world:sick:
frannie Posted January 10, 2009 Posted January 10, 2009 Yes I am still having sex with him I saw him Wednesday morning. We see each other once a week sometimes 2 times a week. I found out he is bi he said he isn't but I know he is. He is seeing a latina girl 19 also with the 2 marred men. I love him I can't let him go now I am not ready to say goodbye I would be devastated. So he lies about his other partners, but you know about them for certain? I suppose you could start by asking yourself why that's OK with you. Do you feel disappointed in him at all, or are you still idolising him? It all seems very strange to me.
Author cynthialc2006 Posted January 10, 2009 Author Posted January 10, 2009 He says he doens't know these people. He said I have not had sex with men. But we have Yahoo Messenger and if yoy go to actions and click on it your contact list comes up. You can't send an instant message to someone unless they are on your contact list. He originally gave it to this married man to contact me . This married man said that I might want to have me do him with a dildo. Thats what the married man wanted but when this man talked to me he said a married spanish bi guy you are seeing gave it to him. I said I don't know any bi guy the other description was who I am seeing. I said he isn't bi but this guy said he has been meeting him for a while now but they meet every seix weeks. I was in such shock. I did say something to the married Spanish man I see that a friend of your from Bliarsville thats a town told me everything. Then I told him what he said. He said sorry I don't know him and I don't have sex with men. He just won't admit it. The other married man said noone would admit it. I know it sounds like a soap opera. I told the spanish married man I see I believe you but I know he is lying. I know you think its messed up for me wanting to continue with him. I can't stop I care about him and I just can't stop.
Adri Ana Posted January 10, 2009 Posted January 10, 2009 He says he doens't know these people. He said I have not had sex with men. But we have Yahoo Messenger and if yoy go to actions and click on it your contact list comes up. You can't send an instant message to someone unless they are on your contact list. He originally gave it to this married man to contact me . This married man said that I might want to have me do him with a dildo. Thats what the married man wanted but when this man talked to me he said a married spanish bi guy you are seeing gave it to him. I said I don't know any bi guy the other description was who I am seeing. I said he isn't bi but this guy said he has been meeting him for a while now but they meet every seix weeks. I was in such shock. I did say something to the married Spanish man I see that a friend of your from Bliarsville thats a town told me everything. Then I told him what he said. He said sorry I don't know him and I don't have sex with men. He just won't admit it. The other married man said noone would admit it. I know it sounds like a soap opera. I told the spanish married man I see I believe you but I know he is lying. I know you think its messed up for me wanting to continue with him. I can't stop I care about him and I just can't stop. This and all other stories of yours are just a mixup of married/men/women/Spanish/Latina (wow!Hot!) and so on ! So actually you say you love your man who keeps all those married/men/women/his wife too ?? on your/his Yahoo ID that shows all contacts to you and him, he gives your ID to other married/men/women as wants to involve you in that Latina/Spanish sex life ,so what do you say ? Are you into Poly ? Then why not to try if you are ? Maybe you will get some pleasure from this all and you start being bi and enjoy ? Did not you think of this ? And loved your style of writing as simply had to reread all several times ,till did not get all to the end:lmao:! Best of luck!
NoIDidn't Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 I'm sorry, but I'm not following this very well. Did a heterosexual woman just find out that her OPTIONAL lover is also having sex with MEN and she is deciding to continue having sex with him (and by default all the other people he's sexing up)? Because her reaction isn't making ANY sense at all. I can see staying with a bi partner that wasn't exercising their *option*, but if they were, I'd be outta there so quick that day would be a whole hour shorter around the world.
frannie Posted January 11, 2009 Posted January 11, 2009 I can't stop I care about him and I just can't stop. Then don't
SierraRose Posted January 13, 2009 Posted January 13, 2009 Why don't you just go get a tainted vile of blood and inject, it will be quicker. Where is your functioning brain. Not only are you one of many on the Russian roulette wheel, you know he is exposing his wife to the same crap. My goodness, I truly don't get the humanity and common sense of some people. I completely agree. I can't even believe one would even waste their breath asking for advise on this situation.
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