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I loved you for a year, waited for you to come around

Now here you come, saying, "Let's be friends."

 

It's not good enough for me

you had your chance to treat me with respect

 

Instead you let me go

waiting

for a year

 

I left the door open for you,

all this time

 

So I cried and cried

waiting

for you all this time

 

I can't allow this condescending, "Let's be friends, I'm back with her. Life is so much better for me, I want to tell you all about it."

 

So I called you on it,

did you ever care?

 

And you jumped back, surprised,

that I have a heart

that you're full of lies

 

So he's doing me the favor

Now

After one year

 

waiting

 

It's too late for me to go back to who I was before

I am changed,

different

 

I don't know who I am

But I thank you

for letting me go

 

After one year of damage

After one year of pain

 

I hope every time you are with her

You think of my name

 

Feeling restless yet?

Oh, but it'll come, it'll come

Things are well now, right now, though aren't they?

 

You'll feel lonely

I won't pick up the phone

 

One year later

 

*

 

I love you LS. I have been lurking here since 2007. You have gotten some great ideas into my head.

 

I know his leaving me is the best thing. For him. For me.

 

But isn't it funny...I really don't know who I am anymore?

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wow, bluebird in heart, you discribed it beautiful.

 

I think he doesnt even realize what he put you through.

He only thinks of himself.

 

I know what you mean: I really don't know who I am anymore. I feel the same.

spend much time with friends and family, but also on your own. you'll find yourself again. trust me on that!

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wow, bluebird in heart, you discribed it beautiful.

 

I think he doesnt even realize what he put you through.

He only thinks of himself.

 

I know what you mean: I really don't know who I am anymore. I feel the same.

spend much time with friends and family, but also on your own. you'll find yourself again. trust me on that!

 

 

((famke))

 

Thanks for the sweet reply.

 

Yes, he doesn't realize what he has put me through.

 

I remember thinking...wow, this guy doesn't even care enough to hate me...just...indifference. Nice.

 

I am figuring it out, and it is getting much better now that I am looking forward more and more and leaving the pain behind me.

 

Thank you for the optimism - I do need that. It is a reordering of things, sifting through and saving all of the good that can be saved, and figuring out what my future is going to be. I have hope.

 

I am not staying stuck, stagnant.

 

That is one thing I know. I am gradually getting my concentration and focus back, I am taking care of my body, my mind. My soul...

 

I can not tell you how delightful it was to see your message, it is nice to have someone read that and relate.

 

The heart is a precious thing - we must take care of it, who we give it to.

 

*love to you*

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