GloryDays Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 So I'm having a hard day today and got little sleep. A male friend of mine called me around 9:30 PM last night to tell me that my ex-boyfriend was at the bar he just walked into. Apparently my ex was sitting there alone, but was stacking dollar bills with the bartender. My ex was the type that rarely wanted to go to the bars and has only 1 male friend! My male friend watched him a little for me and said he was texting 3 times during the night- odd because like I said he has only 1 male friend that he doesn't talk to often. Then I asked him if it looked like he was trying to pick up the bartender and he told me no, that it was just the usual "single guy checking out the hot bartender and flirting" scenario. Now I am wicked upset! I mean, I'm not mad that my friend told me...it's just now I am having all those thoughts of him being with another girl, meeting another girl, having sex with another girl...I am making myself sick!! I've been having a few guys try to get with me since hearing I am single and I can't even think about it! Sure, I talk to them and soak up the attention but I have only thoughts of my ex in my mind. I have NO desire to touch another guy. Something tells me since he didn't want to be with me...maybe he IS talking to someone else. Either way, he's out at the bar doing whatever. I am just so upset
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