mindbender33 Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 I 36 and I have been seeing this woman for almost 2 months. She is 39. This relationship feel different than any other ive ever been in. I have know her for about 6 years but we just had mutual friends. never really spent any time together. Her last relationship lasted bout 3 years. they planned a baby and had one. they were engaged. A little over a year ago he left her without even a word. he just didnt come home one day. He left her for another woman and has had no contact scince. When we started seeing each other she said she wanted to take things slow. We havent been taking it too slow. I am totally falling for her. This relationship feels so good and so right to me. I have never felt this way about someone. I want to tell her im so falling in love with her but im afraid of scaring her off. I know its not just a sexual thing, because we hang out a lot and dont have sex. but its great whan we do. she is all i think about. Please help with some advice. I know she is damaged from her last relationship, and she has a 20 mo old baby girl to think about. basiclly I want to know what you think. Should i tell her how i feel or should i wait
sheila12 Posted January 8, 2009 Posted January 8, 2009 I 36 and I have been seeing this woman for almost 2 months. She is 39. This relationship feel different than any other ive ever been in. I have know her for about 6 years but we just had mutual friends. never really spent any time together. Her last relationship lasted bout 3 years. they planned a baby and had one. they were engaged. A little over a year ago he left her without even a word. he just didnt come home one day. He left her for another woman and has had no contact scince. When we started seeing each other she said she wanted to take things slow. We havent been taking it too slow. I am totally falling for her. This relationship feels so good and so right to me. I have never felt this way about someone. I want to tell her im so falling in love with her but im afraid of scaring her off. I know its not just a sexual thing, because we hang out a lot and dont have sex. but its great whan we do. she is all i think about. Please help with some advice. I know she is damaged from her last relationship, and she has a 20 mo old baby girl to think about. basiclly I want to know what you think. Should i tell her how i feel or should i wait hey i think you shoud follow your heart and if it's telling you to say it, then do it. i have been seeing my bf now for a year, and i was falling in love with him as soon as i saw him. i told him 6months later. but i can see that your women has been hurt, and that is something you should think about. but maybe she feels the same and is afraid to tell you in case you will leave her.
AlektraClementine Posted January 8, 2009 Posted January 8, 2009 You've posted this question twice already in the last few days. Most of the responses (collectively) have advised you to wait a bit longer than 2 months. I think you're looking for someone to give you permission to tell her. None of us can do that for you. Not to sound harsh. Sorry if it does.
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