OCCDAVE Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 I was proud to say I went a good 2 weeks without crying so I felt I was getting strong.today I fell apart and cried im so embarressed I feel I on back to sqaure one even though thursday will mark 1 month nc.
Joker77 Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 I was proud to say I went a good 2 weeks without crying so I felt I was getting strong.today I fell apart and cried im so embarressed I feel I on back to sqaure one even though thursday will mark 1 month nc. How is showing emotion a setback? It's only natural. I have had days where I have wanted to break down. I haven't in a while, but I still have feelings. A setback is if you were to contact her or call her. Then you would be back to square one again. You are doing just fine. Nothing wrong with breaking down. It's human.
Author OCCDAVE Posted January 7, 2009 Author Posted January 7, 2009 I felt it was cause I kept telling everyone im over her and can't stand my ex .so I felt foolish crying over the same person I said I can't stand.
Joker77 Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 I felt it was cause I kept telling everyone im over her and can't stand my ex .so I felt foolish crying over the same person I said I can't stand. Not at all man. Like I said before, we are human. I have done the same myself. If it wasn't for me going to the gym 4 times a week, I'd be a huge basketcase.
D-Lish Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 It's not a set back at all. It's part of the process. You might hate them one day, be over them the next, then go on to miss them the day after that. It means you are healing. Don't beat yourself over it. I hope tomorrow you'll feel different, but most importantly, better.
audrey_1 Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 I understand completely, and am right there with you. Yesterday I had a good day. I wrote in my journal, kept myself busy, which was pretty easy since I had a lot of after holiday cleanup to do. I went out of town. Today wasn't so easy. Even though I decided to go through my filing cabinet and clean it out (yes, I'm REALLY trying to stay busy), I felt the sadness and emotions well up afterward. Just moments before, I had read my travel notes I made while in Australia back in '97, and it filled me with joy I hadn't felt in a while. Weird how it can come crashing down in an instant when you let thoughts of love lost creep into your mind. I'm sorry you're going through this, but you definitely aren't the only one. Hang in there. Tomorrow will be better.
shesmiles Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 if you need to cry, then cry !! cry rivers , oceans and seas !! trust me. you will feel so much better in the end .
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