Boss Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 Ok so I was in a long distance relationship with this wonderful girl. She broke up with me around 2 weeks ago. A day After we broke I guess someone called her and hanged up or something and I think she thought it was me.. I didn't have my phone on me when she called and she left a message saying why did I crank call her. I saw the message and then I texted her on AIM saying why would I do something like that to someone I cared about. She logged off...Later that day she texted me like 3 times. I of course replied back. We were talking about our day and stuff but when she was going to get off I told her I loved her. She replied with "don't say that to me again". I guess she was still mad or something,I don't know. Next day I'm on and I text her and she said she had to leave or something I just went with an ok later. Later that day around night I was logged on she texted me and we had a talk, but then I told her if she wanted to do anything for new years. She said "like what" and I told her it didn't really matter as long as I was with her.. She then told me she wasn't my gf. I ended the Conversation, but I just couldn't go like that, and I got back on and told her how I felt about her and stuff. She replied, but hours later. I guess she couldn't sleep or something, maybe I got to her? I don't know I went a day without talking to her, but unfortunately that was it. I wrote her a poem (I used to write her stuff) and sent it to her. Then I told her to please give me another chance and that I've always loved her. Later I guess she wanted to talk but I wasn't on and I think she got mad. I replied later when she was on and we talked about stuff. I brought up a time when he had a great time,relating to what we were talking about. After that I told her I missed her and then she said to not call her...... Then I told her what she thought of my poem I wrote her. She instead answered with a question about me. Anyway a couple of days passed we talked again at night. She asked me why my "status" said that I loved her? she signed off then I said "maybe because I do".... Next day she calls me, and I pick up tells me log on so we can talk. We talk then she asks me why I don't log on anymore, I say I don't know and she asked me why. Then we talked about some other stuff and then she asks how I have been and when were we gonna hang out. I kinda didn't know what to say. We talked about movies next and then we stopped, but then she called me again. This time she wanted to talk to me...I again didn't know what to say. She was on the line for like a minute before she kinda knew I was uncomfortable talking atm and she said that she will talk to me online than. I just couldn't talk to her! I know she wanted to talk and I did too, but I just couldn't... Then we talked later on and she said something that I would always say when would say something. Yesterday she even called me and told me how my 1st day of school went.(Since I haven't gone to school in along time) Again I couldn't really talk to her straight forward. She was asking me questions like if I met anyone new, how big was the class and if they were any hot girls.....She had asked me this before too, about if I think other girls or hot and what not. So do I still have a chance? Does she want me back? What do I do next? I was thinking of asking if she still wanted to hang out.....but I just don't know what to do! Since I was the one who brought up the part of doing something together....
timmay Posted January 8, 2009 Posted January 8, 2009 this is kinda a no brainer. She definitly still have feelings for you or else she wouldnt be contacting you all the time. I would keep the contact going and if AIM works best for you do that rather than the phone. Build up a positive relation with her and then ask her to go do something but nothing super daetish. Something fun you would both enjoy and im not talking about a moive/dinner. Some sport maybe, go hang at the beach... ect. good luck man i wish my ex would talk to me :{
diskey23 Posted January 8, 2009 Posted January 8, 2009 Id stay away from talking about feelings with her. But she does still seem interested.
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