Prettyinblack Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 My exes friends have sent out a long e-mail to mutual friends of both my ex and myself to get me out of the *circle*. Absolutley trashed me on Sunday night. The e-mail was sent due to jealousy on the womans part(Diane) who had become a good friend of mine during and after the relationship and now, my ex has a new gf and they have chosen him and her. THis message was sent to 12 people that I socialize with (musicians), who all hang in the same circle. My ex is a jerk. Gave me Herpes, cheated, lied....well rid of him. Well, they are saying I am obsessed with him and that everyone is hanging out with me and ignoring Diane and that I am a psycho...I am not a psycho..!! The purpose of this e-mail was to oust me but it was forwarded to me last night to let me know what was said. I reported it to Facebook and havent heard back as of yet. The reason for the anger, I believe is, is because my ex wanted us to be *friends* and I told him to hit the road....I wouldn t have him for a friend, he gave me Herpes and if he keeps pushing it, I will tell the new woman, because God knows, he hasn t. I just want him to quit saying Hi to me and acting like we are friends...he is an jerk. This couple we used to hang out dont want me to make it all uncomfortable but I don t want to *sell* out on my emotions because I am angry and have a right to be. SO, anything I told Diane, has now been publically posted. We are all adults in our mid 40 s and I have received some messages back saying it is immature on their part, but I feel vulnerable and violated. And suggestions.....my ex is also saying that I am a psycho to cover his butt.
EmperorR Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 It sucks bu tthis is what exes do, especially if you share mutual friend's, they trash you, spit on your name. My ex cheated and dumped me but went around saying the breakup was mutual and pinning the blame on me. Just tell them the truth and if there still not with you then cut your losses sorry.
Surfer Dude Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 It sucks bu tthis is what exes do, especially if you share mutual friend's, they trash you, spit on your name. My ex cheated and dumped me but went around saying the breakup was mutual and pinning the blame on me. Just tell them the truth and if there still not with you then cut your losses sorry. Same thing here. She told our mutual friend that it was a mutual break up and that we broke up because of differences in opinions. Perhaps she left out the fact she fcked some chump and dumped me for him
The Collector Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 Put something like 'Sigh... I'll leave it up to others to decide who is acting like the psycho bitch here... haha' as your status update.
openbook08 Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 sweet jesus how pathetic (them, not you!) im lost for words see what FB responds to you :confused::confused::confused::confused::confused: anyone who knows you will not pay any heed to it & the fact that someone thought enough of you to forward it & make you aware of it should give you some comfort. sorry
sunshinegirl Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 Put something like 'Sigh... I'll leave it up to others to decide who is acting like the psycho bitch here... haha' as your status update. I wouldn't even dignify it by acknowledging it. Keep your head high, the mutual friends know who the psycho is.
northstar1 Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 My exes friends have sent out a long e-mail to mutual friends of both my ex and myself to get me out of the *circle*. Absolutley trashed me on Sunday night. The e-mail was sent due to jealousy on the womans part(Diane) who had become a good friend of mine during and after the relationship and now, my ex has a new gf and they have chosen him and her. THis message was sent to 12 people that I socialize with (musicians), who all hang in the same circle. My ex is a jerk. Gave me Herpes, cheated, lied....well rid of him. Well, they are saying I am obsessed with him and that everyone is hanging out with me and ignoring Diane and that I am a psycho...I am not a psycho..!! The purpose of this e-mail was to oust me but it was forwarded to me last night to let me know what was said. I reported it to Facebook and havent heard back as of yet. The reason for the anger, I believe is, is because my ex wanted us to be *friends* and I told him to hit the road....I wouldn t have him for a friend, he gave me Herpes and if he keeps pushing it, I will tell the new woman, because God knows, he hasn t. I just want him to quit saying Hi to me and acting like we are friends...he is an jerk. This couple we used to hang out dont want me to make it all uncomfortable but I don t want to *sell* out on my emotions because I am angry and have a right to be. SO, anything I told Diane, has now been publically posted. We are all adults in our mid 40 s and I have received some messages back saying it is immature on their part, but I feel vulnerable and violated. And suggestions.....my ex is also saying that I am a psycho to cover his butt. Jesus. I'm sorry. Yet another reason why facebook should be used by highschool students only.
quankanne Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 bless her heart, doesn't Diane realize that karma's great about biting you in the *ss? And all the stuff she's done to flame you will come back to haunt her in some form or another? as for the facebook incident, do your best to ignore it. Your real friends know you and respect you as you are ... posers like this chick will never *get* it
openbook08 Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 Jesus. I'm sorry. Yet another reason why facebook should be used by highschool students only. *applauds and stands up whooping and cheering*
Hersheys Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 Jesus. I'm sorry. Yet another reason why facebook should be used by highschool students only. I agree. Forget facebook. Ignore and forget those as*h**** making your life miserable. Stop logging onto FB for a while or better yet close your account and just create a new one when things have settled down. Find new friends or reconnect with those you haven't heard for in a while.
Crazy.S Posted January 8, 2009 Posted January 8, 2009 Just ignore them. If they treat you badly because of some lies then find some new friends. I am sure some of them are smart enough to realize it is not true. Don't fall into some drama filled argument on facebook. Since they are mutual friends, don't let them choose sides. Ignore the ex... don't even acknowledge him.
You'reasian Posted January 8, 2009 Posted January 8, 2009 Same thing here. She told our mutual friend that it was a mutual break up and that we broke up because of differences in opinions. Perhaps she left out the fact she fcked some chump and dumped me for him They always leave that part out lol
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