durotto Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 Well would they ? My ex's new bf is rich (rolling in it) and he is taller and better looking than me ... could she or in fact any girl be influenced by it ? Wow we make such a lovely couple ? Let me dump my current bf and just fall for you .. Well .. what do you guys say ? I have been agonizing over this ... so would appreciate feedback .. but be brutal in your comments .. I can take the truth .. but I guess I will be less trustful of my partner in the future ...
not_a_happy_camper Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 certain types of girls might do.........................but that makes them shallow....................is that what you want? if it's wealth and good looks she's attracted to, well good luck to her because that only gets a person so far. you can do better!!!
loveleen Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 im a girl and even though i love shopping and money any time i can get some extra, i would have never done that to my ex boyfriend. when i was with my ex, there was a guy that wanted to date me and he was riiicchh and goodlooking. but that didnt make me want or even think to leave my ex for him.. even if he was better looking, nicer, funnier yada yada yada. i loved my ex and he was all that i wanted/needed. so if the girl really loved the guy, i dont think she would. i dont mean to burst your bubble or anything like that! but thats how i saw/see it.
starzphalling Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 yes a girl can leave their bf for money and looks. this girl is a shallow witch that never cared in the first place. these are the girls that should be stererlized because i don't want them breeding and teaching their values these are the girls that break your hearts and ruin it for the rest of us and make you guys think we're all the same these are the girls that get what they want, while the rest of us sit and wonder where we went wrong.
BCCA Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 The funny thing about people that do that, is that theyre usually both attractive and only using eachother for the social status that comes with having a hot gf/bf. Unfortunately, the rich guy is always going to have money, but the woman isnt always going to have her looks. If their relationship is only about looks and money, as soon as her looks start to go, hes going to take his money elsewhere. I agree with Loveleen, though, I met a beautiful woman who was doing very well for herself, and she thought the world of me. But, I had a gf, and didnt even consider leaving her for .5 seconds. She was the one who made me happy.
alphamale Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 They would. But they will regret it and come crawling back sometime no, generally they don't come "crawling back" once they have moved up the food chain
alphamale Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 Unfortunately, the rich guy is always going to have money, but the woman isnt always going to have her looks. some rich people do lose all their money, it happens all the time...
EmperorR Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 Some shallow people will, don't hit yourself over it. My ex told me I wasn't smart enough for her:confused:, even though I was the only one working and I'm the one who taught her english and did her essays to get her into university and getting good marks. People like these scum don't deserve your time, your better than her trust me.
Lee725 Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 Yes, i know some women who do that, some of them will travel with the money and the looks not to mention the social circles and move as far along that chain as possible - Sorry. BTW - personally i think those type of people suck (the men that do it too included)
Trialbyfire Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 I've dumped money and looks because he was a lousy b/f or husband. Does that count?
Lee725 Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 I broke it off with one years ago TBF so i guess that makes atleast 2 of us!
jerbear Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 They would. But they will regret it and come crawling back sometime They might if like Alpha mentioned, you yourself move up the food chain and exceed the other. By then, you may have your own entourage.
Capricciosa Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 Who's to say that they don't actually also get along in addition to his having looks and money. And what was your relationship like before this happened? Did it happen out of the blue or were things going downhill? If she was in love with you and then suddenly did that, it sucks. But if you weren't having a great relationship, she might have just met someone else she liked who also has looks and money. It's hard to pronounce on it without those details I think, though I would agree that there are lots of shallow people in the world, and maybe your ex is one of them.
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