ex contacted me for the 5th time i think i need to respond

[blackrider27]

the last few days of no contact were i guess un bearable for my ex that she had to send me 4 messages (3 sunday, 1 yesterday) Basically telling me how i'm dumb for what i'm doing and i didn't reply to any of them

 

Then she sent me one just now saying

 

I know i'm annoying right now but i need to talk it's important

 

automatically she thinks she can get a response out of me because of not telling me what is so "important"

 

i feel kinda guilty, What should i do, i need auto feed back now! please!

[starzphalling]

are you the dumper or the dumpee, and would you talk to her unless someone in her family was dead?...because i consider death a good reason for breaking nc

[blackrider27]

dumpee. and i don't know what the hell is so important.

[saturnfell]

Do you want to call her?

[blackrider27]

if it's not ridiculously important, i'm not even gonna text back. But i did text her saying what is so important. I mean come on, she texted me 5 times, something must be up.

[saturnfell]

What did she say?!?!?!

[blackrider27]

Nothing yet, i'm going to hate myself if it's something about chemistry. Which will be hilarious since she flirts with every guy, so why doesn't she ask them right?

 

I texted her like 5 minutes ago. i'll post whatever she puts here.

 

i was gonna call her or message her asking if she got my text but i'm not putting any more effort in it then a simple text.

[blackrider27]

She is such a bitch. Nothing was important. She did that to ask why i "hate her" now, and why i'm ignoring her.

 

I can't believe myself. that i fell in a trap like that. i'm so pissed right now. Should i text her back? She thinks i have a thing with this girl, which i don't, but i really don't care about what she thinks anymore, she lied to me.

 

Just had to get that lie back in huh?

[saturnfell]

She is such a bitch. Nothing was important. She did that to ask why i "hate her" now, and why i'm ignoring her.

 

I can't believe myself. that i fell in a trap like that. i'm so pissed right now. Should i text her back? She thinks i have a thing with this girl, which i don't, but i really don't care about what she thinks anymore, she lied to me.

 

Just had to get that lie back in huh?

 

Hi,

 

Calm down. She asked why you 'hate her'? Do you? She obviously cares and since you've distanced yourself, it's bothering her. May I ask why the two fo your broke up?

[westrock]

She is such a bitch. Nothing was important. She did that to ask why i "hate her" now, and why i'm ignoring her

 

Actually, those are important issues. This is your opportunity to talk with her. What did you say to her?

[blackrider27]

i don't want to get back together with her. she's a bitch, especially waht she did now. She's been doing ****ty things for the past couple weeks, Theres more stuff on the break up on my other threads.

 

But i'm just mad at myself, i did awesome no contact and felt good, and i'm a bit set back, but i deleted the texts and i'm continueing no contact, i'm pissed at myself but whatever. I knew i shouldn't have even replied.

[saturnfell]

Now, you'll never respond again. Just stay strong.

[Lee725]

It is OK, Some of us tend to make mistakes like that from time to time with our NC rules, just Con't NC and remember for the next time she txt's.

If it is something truly important she will call you and come out with it, not play txt games.