zilverenvlinder Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 I just started seeing this guy like, two weeks ago. He's extremely cool, funny, and hot. We've been out about four times, one time which I slept over at his house, which I think is a decent pace for a normal and sane relationship. I plan on seeing him tomorrow too. On Friday, he and his sister and brother and his sister's boyfriend are going to the Caribbean for a week and a half on vacation. I have begun to grow a pretty extreme butterflies-in-stomach feeling for this guy and I have absolutely no idea if he feels the same way about me. (I mean, he obviously likes me because we go out and he pays for everything and he holds my hand in public and introduced me to all of his friends.) I just know, based strictly on his appearance, that there are dirty American whores in Mexico and he probably will get hit on; he'll be drunk quite a bit while he's there and I would imagine that a few of these sluttish skanks will try to get a piece. I am a little worried about that and I'm also worried that because this little "relationship" we've started has pretty much lasted about the same amount of time that he'll be gone, he will just flat out forget about me. Has anyone really ever had this experience? JUST started dating someone and they go away for awhile? I'm a little nervous about it, and maybe I'm being stupid but I've never been in this situation. Thanks! <3 z
portcitykitty Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 Well with my guy, he was going back home for Christmas last year, and was going to be gone for a little over a week. He'd been trying to get with me for FOREVER, and I finally started reciprocating shortly before he left. When he told me he was going to be gone and for that long, my heart broke...it hit me hard! So I made sure to stop by his work before he left to wish him a good trip and a good Christmas, that I'll miss him, and that I think we should hook up after he gets back. He agreed to it, and I gave him my number. I was a little worried he'd forget about me, but we saw each other pretty regular due to our jobs, and we did get things going after he got back, and they're still going. I do think absence makes the heart grow fonder (for me) because due to his crazy schedule, we don't see each other that much. But my God, when I do finally get around him, my heart goes crazy!!! I'd think if we saw each other too much, we'd get tired of each other, or at least I think he'd get tired of me! Surely your guy won't forget about you while he's gone...who knows, if he's as great as you make him out to be, maybe he'll buy you a souvenir to show he was thinking of you! And maybe he'll be smart and keep his drinking under control, and hopefully he won't hook up with any senoritas! But hopefully it'll all work out well for ya!
Shygirl15 Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 Has anyone really ever had this experience? JUST started dating someone and they go away for awhile? I'm a little nervous about it, and maybe I'm being stupid but I've never been in this situation. Uh huh. I just didn't allow myself to get stressed over it.
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