Dexter Morgan Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 You are still sleeping with the OM even though your husband found out... You can't have your cake and eat it to sweety... Its over.... You are to BLAME. YOU LET THIS GUY inside of YOU. YOU, YOU, YOU I won't judge you... But I know you are severly messed up in your brain... I know this.... You clearly don't want your husband... CLEARLY.... There is something your husband provides, that you NEED him for... Maybe money.. Maybe shelter... Something.... Thats why you don't just up and leave him.... THIS OM, you show no remorse in your actions, you are in love with him. I don't think you love your husband. You have to leave your Husband, for his SAKE, he HATES you right now, HE HATES YOU!!!. He HATES YOU. He loves you but you betrayed him, you are still betraying him, you think he is a fool, you think he won't know that your sleeping with this OM. I feel sorry for your husband, just leave him, you have to stand on your own NOW. You messed up that life you had with your husband. Just go away women, go away. Question, why haven't your husband kicked you out???? You do realize that, you can't keep hiding this... You do realize that sooner or later, the entire truth is going to come to light.... You should do what my EX did, blame me for her affair then tell me to **** off, that will really damage your husbands brain.... But, I think your husband is smarter than that, chances are, he already built up a wall around you, its only a matter of time, before the divorce comes and you know what... YOUR STILL SLEEPING with the OM.... WHY?? because you CAN, you have no control, you are probably addicted to him, you probably have sex with him MORE than your husband.... Oh man... You are not ready for marriage, you have to do more whoring.... Good Luck Holy smokes. I have strong opinions on cheating, but damn!!!!
BackonTrack2 Posted January 8, 2009 Posted January 8, 2009 Wow, piling on much? Isn't there a little bit of contradiction in "I won't judge you...but" ? The OP knows she's doing the wrong thing, has made mistakes and isn't being fair to her husband. That's why she's here. Not sure how it helps her - or you - to chase her away... Mr. Lucky Well I guess your right in this regard, I mean you have to call a spade a spade and if she's running from words on a internet forum then she's running from the truth and she'll never fix herself if she can't look her self in the mirror + it just means she has even deeper issues than her cheating, like maybe a habitiual liar, or some kind of person who lives in a fantasy land, and now that her husband has put her in the other room, reality is starting to set in, if he had never done that, she probably would still be ****ing this OM, without a care in the world. And this female, she is so stupid, no i'm sorry nieave, in her way of thinking, like she's not at fault, like she is not taking responsibility for her actions, like she's putting the blame elsewhere. I mean I just can't understand people like that, people without common sense, it upsets me greatly. She's not stupid, she knows EXACTLY what she's doing, she LIKES IT, she deserve no symptanty, her actions state it, look, he found out and she's STILL ****ING the OM. I feel even more sorry for her husband, look at this, he found out and she won't stop, she doesn't love him at all, she's using him, she's a user, she's not a good girl, she's not ready for marriage, look, she hasn't even responded, she won't come back here, she'll sit at home and read the responses but she knows she's wrong, she won't stop. She has allot more maturing to do in life, chances are she's somehow tied to this man, if he leaves her, she's ****ed, I'm sure of it, but she's not goign to stop, she's going to try and get it her way, up until the very end, when her husband has had enough and throws her out, then she'll learn the hard way, people like this only learn when reality steps in and forces them to mature, they won't do it on their own, they can't, its to hard for them, its TO easy to NOT STOP, why stopp? he'll never know.... Sweety, your days are coming, your going to be left out, cold and dry, so I suggest you start making departure plans. Its only a matter of time now, the clock is ticketing.. What you going to do? Good Luck to you.
atwitsend Posted January 8, 2009 Posted January 8, 2009 I think this girl is set in her ways. He will dump her. And she will find another guy and do the same to him. She believes that it is everyone elses fault but hers.
Mr. Lucky Posted January 8, 2009 Posted January 8, 2009 Well I guess your right in this regard, I mean you have to call a spade a spade and if she's running from words on a internet forum then she's running from the truth and she'll never fix herself if she can't look her self in the mirror + it just means she has even deeper issues than her cheating, like maybe a habitiual liar, or some kind of person who lives in a fantasy land, and now that her husband has put her in the other room, reality is starting to set in, if he had never done that, she probably would still be ****ing this OM, without a care in the world. Here is the forum's stated mission: "LoveShack.org is designed and operated to promote collaboration and to offer support to persons seeking advice. The hosts of the channel and web forums and other guests assist you with problems or questions that you may have regarding relationships and other socially oriented questions. We do our best to try and help you find your own answers" How does calling her a whore promote collaboration and offer support? She's come here and posted seeking feedback, a small, positive first step. Perhaps it's just me, but I don't see how the name calling helps her figure anything out. Although I can see how it's designed to make you feel better... Mr. Lucky
Reggie Posted January 8, 2009 Posted January 8, 2009 Here is the forum's stated mission: "LoveShack.org is designed and operated to promote collaboration and to offer support to persons seeking advice. The hosts of the channel and web forums and other guests assist you with problems or questions that you may have regarding relationships and other socially oriented questions. We do our best to try and help you find your own answers" How does calling her a whore promote collaboration and offer support? She's come here and posted seeking feedback, a small, positive first step. Perhaps it's just me, but I don't see how the name calling helps her figure anything out. Although I can see how it's designed to make you feel better... Mr. Lucky Nothing is going to help this woman figure it out. She is both dumber than a rock and a sociopath.
Mr. Lucky Posted January 8, 2009 Posted January 8, 2009 Nothing is going to help this woman figure it out. She is both dumber than a rock and a sociopath. Again, not very helpful if she's going to get back on track. Let's all agree that she's made mistakes and done some things wrong. Now what? Mr. Lucky
JustBreathe Posted January 8, 2009 Posted January 8, 2009 Hey.... not for nuttin but why aren't your posts getting flagged what with the name calling and stuff? I once had my post "flagged" (gasp) for posting that someone was making blanket statements and assumptions. After they flag you, your posts are monitored until they deem you have learned your lesson. I am contrite! I saw the light! Seriously, name calling is out of line, no matter how hurt you feel right now and want to lash out. I'm starting to think this girls a troll anyway. No one could be that stupid... oops.. I mean silly.
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