me101 Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 Hello every one, My gf of 7 yrs and I have now been apart for almost 5 months. I have changed so much in that time. I still love her and miss her but the truth is , I needed this to happen. It hurts still the way things went down with her having a new bf just a week after our break up. But still I am much better for it. I know that I became very boring and now I am not. I go to clubs and bars now ( something that I never would have done before) I also sing in kariokie contest now. I lived life in a shell and now I have a real life. I know that she and I are over for good and I am ok with that. If you are having a hard time with a break up then let it hurt. If your ex rubs salt in the wound with some one else , just remember that salt makes it hurt like crazy but you heal alot faster. I want to say thank you to every one who has responded to my post and rants. To those of you who are just starting down this hard road , my prayers are with you and may all your dreams come true. It is true what they say about falling in love. You give so much of your self away that you can loose who you are.But when you find your self it is the best gift in the world. I am not saying that I have no more hard days ahead but the light at the end of the tunnel is getting very bright.
sinkerswim Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 thank you for your post. Keep at it! I hope and pray that all of us are happy again one day! My road of hell is just ahead of me...and I am dreading every second.
Author me101 Posted January 7, 2009 Author Posted January 7, 2009 Hi and thanks for the replies. I know that you may think you will never get over it but one day it will be gone. Thats right the nights of no sleep and days of not knowing how you will make it. You will smile , love and trust again only next time you will have had the broken heart experiance under your belt so if it dose happen you will be stronger. I hope that your pain and heart break will be as little as possible and that you bounce back like a rubber ball.
not_a_happy_camper Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 someday, we will all hope that the light at the end of the tunnel, is not in fact, the headlights of the oncoming train!!! sorry!!! this post me101. it's good to see someone coming out the other end of it all, and happy. lets hope the same happens for the rest of us.
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