shesmiles Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 My bestfriend and her ex are talking again, there story is kinda the same as my ex's and I except I don't see myself talking to him ever again. Yesterday I went to my old school to see my bestfriend and her ex because they go there together. We went into the cafe and my ex happened to be there with some of his girlfriends so we walked all the way to the back didn't say anything and my ex won't talk to my bestfriends ex because he's hanging around with me again. Later that night I come on facebook to see that my ex's girlfriend has added me? I don't understand. I ignored the friend request and texted my ex saying " wondering why your girlfriend is adding me to facebook? " no response. is she trying to rub her relationship into my face? her profile picture was of them laying down... this really made me angry for the rest of the night and I woke up this morning with so much anger in my system.
Adri Ana Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 Your anger is understandable, but your actions were too harsh . You had to add her and to talk to her as you - the happiest girl . Then she would bite her fingers all the night for sure , not you .
openbook08 Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 i am blue in the face from sayin it 'deactivate' facebook
Author shesmiles Posted January 6, 2009 Author Posted January 6, 2009 The thing is: I have family and all my friends on facebook and those who don't have msn Have facebook so it'd be very hard for me to deactivate and I think that's something they'd want me to do. Not only that I'm a photo person so I have alot of albums and alot of stuff I'd just really Miss, I know I could block her .
EmperorR Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 Just deactivate fb until your healed or run of notifications etc
Author shesmiles Posted January 6, 2009 Author Posted January 6, 2009 AHHH! i'm so stubborn .. i messeged her and said : why are you out of people adding me to facebook?
openbook08 Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 The thing is: I have family and all my friends on facebook and those who don't have msn Have facebook so it'd be very hard for me to deactivate and I think that's something they'd want me to do. Not only that I'm a photo person so I have alot of albums and alot of stuff I'd just really Miss, I know I could block her . me too me too but i still deactivated makes you put more of an effort into friendships/relations anyway
Grizzman Posted January 7, 2009 Posted January 7, 2009 Honestly I think I would have accepted the add from her because she got the reaction she was looking for out of you. She got you mad and now she knows it too. People just dont understand anymore how to win an argument. Once you have gotten mad you lost. I had an ex try and pick a fight with me over the phone once. I told her that we should talk about this another time when she is in a better place and said Ill talk to her tomorrow. Three days later she brought it up again saying that it really ticked her off that I did that. I replied see I won.... I wasnt the one that got mad like she intended, she did. This got her mad a second time. She just wanted to have an argument and I didnt bite. Here endth the lesson.
Crazy.S Posted January 8, 2009 Posted January 8, 2009 I was a little confused after the first read. I thought your bestfriend's ex added you. And that you were mad that he/she was rubbing in your face that they got back together again. But after I re-read it several times, I realized you meant your ex's new gf added you. I guess I would be mad to, but to save your face, you should refrain from acknowledging anything like that again. Just ignore them and get on with your life.
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