Case07 Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 Make this short and sweet. No not really. Ok me and my girlfriend dated or have been dating for 10 months. I remember her saying we never fight. Now we do all the time over stupid stuff. She invites me to dance I say okay. Some other guy starts dancing with her and she just puts her hands up like what do you want me to do?? I get pissed walk away. Her friend has to drag her from the dance floor cuz I'm angry. I tell her why I'm upset because of what she did. Not that I'm mad she dances with who ever just the what do you want me to do look she gave me. I tell her that it's messed up and she starts yelling at me saying all the sudden you care blah blah. Soon as it's said and done she says okay I'm sorry. But not in a sinciere way and says can I go back and talk to my friends. I say ok. Goes back takes pictures with home dude. I blow it off after a day or two. When something I do is wrong I hear about it for days on end. She has these mood swings. Everything is fine one minute and then she'll remind herself of why she was mad prior to whatever. I'm getting frustrated with her always bringing stuff up. She says you embarrassed me in front of my sister and friend by acting like a doosh to some guy that was hitting on her. I tell her why I'm mad or upset with her and she will turn it all around. Always. I love her to death and she wants me to change some of my ways but I feel she is not willing to change any of hers. One day she says she can't take it anymore blah blah. Pretty much breaking up with me. Next day I don't call or text. She calls and says your making this easy for me. I'm like whaaaat? And I can't say u just ended it because I want her apart of my life. She's so confusing
You'reasian Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 Well that wasn't short or sweet now, but no worries You need a good buffer about you when your woman goes out and dances on the dance floor. Chances are, what happens on the dance floor stays on the dance floor - I'm hoping that's the case for your woman.... You say that you are trying to change, but every time you bring this up to her she tries to spin it on you. I think she has issues. I think she may have been bullied/abused by someone very close and is now repeating he process but I can't say for sure as this is my guess.
Author Case07 Posted January 6, 2009 Author Posted January 6, 2009 I dont get angry when she dances..i want her to have fun and be free spirited. but she gets in this mode where she just doesnt care. its the fact that she said come dance and i go and some dude just came up from behind and she didnt really push him away but instead continued to dance..I'll agree that she has issues because her last bf was a real big just a-hole and treated her like crap. I dont think i treat her like crap. Im very good to her at times. She thinks i yell at her but i know i dont. She'll say stop yelling at me or i wont be talked to like that..when in all actuality im not really raising my voice what so ever..and im affraid to kinda like say stuff to her cuz she'll get that attitude like ok fine what ever..it sucks cuz i know she loves me but she wants to be in control i think. and if she doesnt have it then im in trouble...
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