sumdude Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 So I was perusing the dating site I'm on and saw a profile of a girl I know through friends. We've had a few conversations. At one point I thought about going somewhere with it but never got there. Would it be strange to send her a message on the dating site? I have her number but never set anything up.
LostNLonely Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 Only if you were to do it in a comic vein, if your serious and you have the digits, go directly at her along those lines, you've got the real-world-connection going for you, and it distinguishes you from the rest of us, don't lump yourself in with the cyber-crowd if you don't have to...just an opinion.
BoerumHill Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 Is this site setup so that you can cyber stalk her? Just kidding...sort of...but if it shows you when she was last active, then I guess you know she is still available (FWIW - on some sites they leave inactive accounts up forever even after you cancel). If yes, then give her a call. Do you have her email addy? Just curious how long since you snoozed on calling her? Quick note might help.
Trimmer Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 Make sure you make it clear right away the connection you have IRL, so it doesn't come up later as an odd surprise that you knew but didn't mention. As long as you're up front with that, then it should be fine.
Author sumdude Posted January 6, 2009 Author Posted January 6, 2009 Is this site setup so that you can cyber stalk her? Just kidding...sort of...but if it shows you when she was last active, then I guess you know she is still available (FWIW - on some sites they leave inactive accounts up forever even after you cancel). If yes, then give her a call. Do you have her email addy? Just curious how long since you snoozed on calling her? Quick note might help. Well I just saw her on New Years at a bar where my buddies were playing. She's part of a group of common friends.
SoulSearch_CO Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 I'd say call her - especially if you saw her on New Year's Eve...AND with her being part of a common group of friends.
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