Peter_pan Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 I am now fully over my ex, i dont want her back ever and i just want to help myself get the most out of life. one thing i realised is that you just have to know when something is dead. i cant believe i pinned over my ex for almost a year. what was i doing!! this game of life is about us, you and me as individuals. dont rely on someone else for your happiness. its crazy! i gues my conclusion has come to this, if you are young like me, why beat yourself up over a relationship, you are now free to do what you want and grab life by the balls. make something of yourself and have fun. dont get tied down now! whats the point? anyway my life has come to a crossroad it would seem. i can either go to uni at the age of 21, finish when im 24 and do my parents proud, or look into really trying to get into a job that is related to what i studied 3 years ago back in college and make a career path out of what i have? a big big part of me wants to get a degree and achieve what will be the highest education i will ever do. another big part of me wants to already be in a good job, good pay and live my life as an adult now. i dont know what to do guys i feel to old for uni. it feels like i should have gone a long time ago, but i didnt really know what i wanted to study :S i have qualification in engineering to a level standard. or i could go on to uni level and study architecture, uni would be fun and great to get a degree, but so would being in a good engineering related job on a salary of £30 - £40k because i got the engineering at A level standard i am thinking should i peruse that at uni? i never really liked it that much, but i loved the practical side of it and problem solving.. and i am naturally good at history and art so thought architecture would be right up my street. well i have 2 weeks of architecture work exp coming up, so i guess that will re enforce my mind on that !!
calculus Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 Well I believe you're never too old for school. I kept on bouncing around with what I wanted to major in and the community college I wanted to transfer out of had bad academic counselors so that set me back a couple of years. I finally decided on a major and graduated with my bachelor's degree when I was 26 (about a year ago). If you feel like going back to school, go for it. It's worth the investment.
kizik Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 I am now fully over my ex Don't speak too soon or you'll feel stupid later. i dont want her back ever and i just want to help myself get the most out of life. one thing i realised is that you just have to know when something is dead. Completely agree. Good job mate. i cant believe i pinned over my ex for almost a year. what was i doing!! You're over her when you're over her. Time doesn't matter. this game of life is about us, you and me as individuals. dont rely on someone else for your happiness. Good on ya once again. You have the right attitude.
Author Peter_pan Posted January 6, 2009 Author Posted January 6, 2009 true, i guess i shouldn't speak to soon! i miss the comfort of her and what she offered. but was to young, inexperienced and so it went tits up
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