Iced Mocha Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 Hi all!! I have been wondering, when you're fwb with a good looking guy, how long it usually lasts for? Is it only once or twice, or longer b4 they want to move on? Cheers!
Author Iced Mocha Posted March 16, 2009 Author Posted March 16, 2009 Bump! Does anyone know?? I'm pretty inexperienced so I was wondering. In the past, I have always kind of ignored good looking guys that were trying anything on with me, because I always thought there is absolutely no point and I will only get a one night stand. What do you think? Can you have sex a bit more than that or is it like only gonna be once or twice before you get dumped?
Trialbyfire Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 If all you're looking for is sex, does it really matter? Good-looking men are still just men. You don't treat them any differently than anyone else, just because they're pretty.
MindoverMatter Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 Well, a one night stand usually lasts a night (and maybe the following day). A friendship with benefits, is usually this: a friendship that has turned sexual. You know the guy before and you establish a benefit situation. In those cases it could go on forever. As TBF said: if you're only in it for the sex with pretty people, why would it matter?
BCCA Posted March 16, 2009 Posted March 16, 2009 I've had FWB's last years, and some that were over in a week. Generally, they work so long as youre both single, and looking to get laid. Once someone is seeing someone else, its over. There isnt even a 'getting dumped' your phone just stops ringing and the other person stops answering. because I always thought there is absolutely no point and I will only get a one night stand HARSH! Dont be so rough on yourself, Im sure there are plenty of good looking guys out there that would be interested in more than a roll in the hay.
Untouchable_Fire Posted March 17, 2009 Posted March 17, 2009 Bump! Does anyone know?? I'm pretty inexperienced so I was wondering. In the past, I have always kind of ignored good looking guys that were trying anything on with me, because I always thought there is absolutely no point and I will only get a one night stand. What do you think? Can you have sex a bit more than that or is it like only gonna be once or twice before you get dumped? Depends on what you look like. Some FWB's are FWB's because they are scandalous whores but otherwise decent. I tend to keep them on speed-dial. Some FWB's are kinda fugly and are only FWB's when I'm drunk. Much more likely for a one nighter.
Lizzie60 Posted March 17, 2009 Posted March 17, 2009 Hi all!! I have been wondering, when you're fwb with a good looking guy, how long it usually lasts for? Is it only once or twice, or longer b4 they want to move on? Cheers! It depends.. if you both enjoy sex together, it can last for years.. If he moves on after being with you once or twice.. then the sex is not that good.
Beautiful Inside Posted March 17, 2009 Posted March 17, 2009 i know how you feel i feel the same way every time i see a really good looking guy i dont ever get caught looking at them why? just to make their heads bigger most of them are way cocky and think they deserve everything handed to them....i see them everyday at the gym all the huge roided out body builders like yea your cute n all but what else to you have to offer me besides nice looks nothing not even a smart convo...i think all the guys i have came across that r really hott were all up to no good only wanted to hook up....its sux....ive never met a really sincere nice good looking guy besides my hott bf i have now but he was the first i met!
sumdude Posted March 17, 2009 Posted March 17, 2009 It depends.. if you both enjoy sex together, it can last for years.. If he moves on after being with you once or twice.. then the sex is not that good. LOL... cut to the chase girl.
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