Bostonboy Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 Hello all, I have been going out with this girl for about 14 months, I recently discovered that she has slept with one of her really good friends. They still hang out all the time, I also found out that they were fooling around very close to the time that we started dating, what should I do? How do I approach her with this? It is eating me up inside. Thanks
BikerBeagle Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 Did she sleep with him while he was with you? Do you have any reason to believe she's sleeping with him now? Live in the present, or live in the past, it's your choice.
ioncebelieved Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 Hmmmm, do you suspect she may still be intimate with her friend? That is what would concern me if I were you. Would be hard to accept her being "just friends" with him and would even be harder keeping cool and understanding about her relationship. On paper, I would say run as far away as you could, but I do not have enough information to give such advice. Sounds like a crappy/ touchy situation you are in and it really depends on how much you care for and love her. I would think she is still having relations with her "friend" but that is just me. Do you have any indication that she may be doing this? Good luck with it and not the relationship I would want to be in. Too much red flag hanging out, ya dig????
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