polola303 Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 Just wondering what you guys thought... supposedly all men like porn, but how many of you do actually keep the videos on your computer, and how many? I mean, I'm a girl and I like porn, but I don't see the need of having tons of videos stored on my computer, I'll download a couple watch them and throw them out. But I'm a girl, so I just wanted to know the guy's opinion, and also, if you're in a relationship how much porn do you still watch?
AlektraClementine Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 I'll answer as my boyfriend. haha. "You can never watch too much porn. Especially lesbian strap on porn." I swear, that boy looks at so much porn I'm sure he must get blurry vision sometimes. He checks porn as often as I check craigslist or cnn.
LostNLonely Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 Outside of a relationship I always have it on the set next to my home work station. I like Teenage anal amatuer porn myself, although lesbo porn gets me going too. I would say in a relationship I trim it to three 20 minute sessions 3 times daily, maybe four if it's a weekend or if I stay up late. But I'm middle-aged, you may be looking for twenty-something year old responders.
kizik Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 Once you start rubbing the skin off your dick - it's too much.
D-Lish Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 Once you start rubbing the skin off your dick - it's too much. If I had a dick I'd concur!!! I watch and keep porn on my own computer. I like it- mostly lesbian stuff. Never judge a guy and his porn- embrace it and you will find he embraces you!
You'reasian Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 I'm on a borrowed computer (important for you guys to know) - but I do look a porn. Hell, I've even brought the girl I'm with into the porn store with me and we teased each other (if she can remember ) I look at porn a whole lot less when I see my girl (or atleast phone her frequently) - because we should be satisfying each other. I want to get her off as much as possible as frequenly possible...sure we have to eventually do things like eat and sleep but its all about taking care of your girl.
fral945 Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 I've got a collection on my computer. I'd guess a couple of 100, though I've never counted. It's too much in a relationship when you begin to choose it over your partner (assuming she is sexually available). When you're single it's never too much.
JackJack Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 I have seen my share of all kinds that;'s for sure. However, i would say I probably watched it more when i was single than I have since I have been married. It has nothing to do with my wife not liking it either. We have watched it together before, and I have watched it here and there once in blue moon by myself. However, I don't know if its been that I have seen so much of it throughout my life or what...but I really find it pretty dull are boring over the past few years...its kind of like once you seen one you've seen them all kind of deal....they really don't do alot for me. Its one of those things I could take it or leave it.
runner Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 my problem is finding quality porn that's actually worth keeping. most of the stuff on the net is just - i could do without. so how much is too much ? quality stuff* never gets old and i prefer sharing it with my SO rather than watching alone and when i'm in a relationship, i find little use for it. basically its just another sex toy that isn't all that important most of the time. *fit actors; good photography; good lighting; none of this over-the-top bull**** acting, or trying to act.
EnigmasMuse Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 I think it depends on the man. Some men feel they can't do without it. Others watch it on occassions either with their spouse or by themselves. I think too it can depend on the woman also, and what she will and will not tolerate depending on how its affecting their relationship, if it is at all.
JamesM Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 I would say in a relationship I trim it to three 20 minute sessions 3 times daily, maybe four if it's a weekend or if I stay up late. But I'm middle-aged, you may be looking for twenty-something year old responders. Personally, I think this is an addiction at this stage. When we have it down to timed sessions, then I think it involves a little too much of our time. You said that this is how much while in a relationship...does this affect the relationship in your experience? Has the partner ever expressed concern at so much porn use? If this is how much used in a relationship, then I am assuming that the SO has no problem with such usage? Just my opinion. It's too much in a relationship when you begin to choose it over your partner (assuming she is sexually available). I would agree and add that it is too much if she is offended by what you watch...assuming she knows. For those in a relationship the question can best be answered....Does your SO think it is too much?
Frankasy Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 Personally I think it has to do with an individual's development. I mean I used to watch a lot of porn when I was younger, used to have videos on my computer and cellphone and I used to watch a lot of porn. It's not like I don't watch anymore now but I've reduced my time. My phone has been clean for a couple of years now, so has my computer. I just look at internet porn sometimes and afterwords delete my internet history so that nobody finds out about me watching porn. When I was an addict if I could say I used to watch porn like 3-4 times a week, now it's like once in 2-3 months. To answer your question, porn for us is never too much. At least here in Europe, I used to and some of my friends still see porn as an achievement, as a race of who watches the most so I hardly doubt that there's a line.
carhill Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 OP, let me ask you. Would you throw out your vibrator if it worked? As to quantity, I keep little on my computer. Pesky customs inspectors It's all on DVD and network disks. All legal. All encrypted so none but the best of young computer crackers can get at it. Purpose? Besides the obvious tool for sex, it serves as a historical document, both of my tastes and those of society. Always interesting to pull something 15-20 years old and examine its relevance. I enjoy the hairstyles and emergence of fake boobs and plastic surgery. Frequency? Maybe once or twice a week. The NTTP downloads are automated so I just check them once in awhile to see what's new. Enjoy!
JamesM Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 Purpose? Besides the obvious tool for sex, it serves as a historical document, both of my tastes and those of society. Always interesting to pull something 15-20 years old and examine its relevance. :lmao: That is one of the best reasons I have ever heard!
Author polola303 Posted January 6, 2009 Author Posted January 6, 2009 Thanks for your answers! All where incredibly amusing/helpful/enlightening hahaha
Geishawhelk Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 supposedly all men like porn.....? Nope. My BF hates it. He never looks at it, and won't watch it or look at magazines. It really does absolutely nothing for him. He loves those wonderful sepia turn-of-the century "risqué" photos they used to take of ladies, and his favourite calendar has really beautiful pictures done by Gil Elvgren but yer actual porn? Wouldn't touch it to save his life.
Enema Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 I like variety. So I store a bit. Probably 5-10 gig.
Artu Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 Hey,guys,why you store it on your comp ? (It`s boring to atch same twice:D) There are so many various online sites ! __________________________________ The answer to the author : There is not much ,too much and normal . Once one may watch all days long,some other while he may watch just once two days. It depends.. On something between legs. ...and else on the head.That is on the shoulders (by the way). LOL .
Author polola303 Posted January 6, 2009 Author Posted January 6, 2009 OP, let me ask you. Would you throw out your vibrator if it worked? ) hahahahahah that's too funny! That's awesome!
Author polola303 Posted January 9, 2009 Author Posted January 9, 2009 well, i think my boyfriend sees too much, has tons of videos and pics at his home computer, has a membership to a site and watches porn at work all day. he never touches me or kisses me not even mention have sex with me! so yup, i think that's too much, not to mention he can pay for his porn everymonth but we don't have enough to pay the rento. go figure!
You'reasian Posted January 9, 2009 Posted January 9, 2009 well, i think my boyfriend sees too much, has tons of videos and pics at his home computer, has a membership to a site and watches porn at work all day. he never touches me or kisses me not even mention have sex with me! so yup, i think that's too much, not to mention he can pay for his porn everymonth but we don't have enough to pay the rento. go figure! Watches porn at work all day! What does he do for a living?
AlektraClementine Posted January 9, 2009 Posted January 9, 2009 Let me pose another perspective to you. What if it's not the amount of porn but a problem with your relationship? I only ask because when you were describing the amount of porn your BF stores and watched, it sounded exactly like my BF. He has tons of videos, pics, etc.. knows about all the good sites (he doesn't pay). The difference is that my BF and I have a very active sex life. I have even contributed some of my own homemade stuff to his collection.
Author polola303 Posted January 9, 2009 Author Posted January 9, 2009 he's a salesman, we work in a company that makes a sells audio systems. he's good at what he does but he hast tons of free time. we have NO sex life, it's maybe once every 2 weeks, and it's not even good. he doesn't bother to turn me on or touch me or anything, i haven't complained cause it would only make him have less sex with me. i would have loved to make a video of myself or both of us, or maybe give him pics, but he doesn't really like to see me naked, if i undress he looks the other way. he's very affectionate but not sexual.i was kind of coping with thta since he said he just didn't need sex all that much, i still thought it was odd and very selfish since if one of the 2 needs/wants more sex then maybe you should put out a bit more, but anyways i was kind of trying to deal with it until i found all the porn on his computer i felt sick, not because of the porn but because of the lying, and now i checked his internet history at his work computer and found more porn and porn and porn. i know i shouldn't been snooping, and i'm not the kind of preson who would normally do it, we've just had many trust issues and i was feeling very uneasy, the first time i wasn't even expecting to find porn since he has always stated he didn't like it.
JamesM Posted January 9, 2009 Posted January 9, 2009 He watches too much if you have "no sex life." It is not because you have a poor relationship that he watches porn. You have a poor relationship BECAUSE he watches porn IMO. What to do? That is the question. If he lied about it originally, then I am guessing that he will not be inclined to choose you over porn. If he does not want to look at you, then IMO it is because he has seen so many porn stars that he has a twisted image of waht all women should look like. Some men are not affected in this way, but it sounds as if your BF is addicted. I hope I am wrong, but I doubt he will put your relationship first.
AlektraClementine Posted January 9, 2009 Posted January 9, 2009 I hate to harp on this point but really, I don't think it's the porn. It's not one or the other when it comes to porn or sex. A healthy relationship can certainly have both.
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