RM0123 Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 Ok.. So I am starting to freak out again about my break-up. I keep thinking I am supposed to be on a cruise ship right now heading to the Bahamas with him but instead I am here by myself. I also wrote my ex an email today. It is something I wish I would have said from the first day, last Tuesday. I keep thinking, maybe if I had we would be on the cruise right now. But he hasn't replied to me, although in a text he said he would at some point soon. I need your guys help and support. I don't want to sit her having trouble breathing and crying my eyes out!
EmperorR Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 Sitting around moping isn't going to make anything better, you have to keep yourself busy. Read that new book you always wanted to , buy a season of a favorite show and watch it. I know how hard it is, I was suppose to go away with my ex a few weeks when she told me she cheated and dumped me and I didn't have insurance on our tickets. And if you can it's better to cease contact you sent what you meant now it's time to heal yourself:)
lovingalways Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 Watch the last episode of "Grey's Anatomy" particularly the last 10 minutes of it. That's what I did and it gave me some hope (as silly as that might sound). And distract yourself. Read a good book. Go outside. Enjoy the weather. Look at the stars and know that the right person for you is somewhere out there and that sooner or later, he will be right there with you sharing the most incredible moments and making you happy, wonderfully excited and bubbly. Don't think about this man. Think about the happy future. So watch the last 10 minutes of Grey's - even if it's not your thing, I'm sure it'll make you smile. Try to find the vent scene between Christina Yang and Owen Hunt. Type it in youtube.
Author RM0123 Posted January 6, 2009 Author Posted January 6, 2009 I can't find that clip under that search. Why am I all of a sudden freaking out. I can't seem to think about anything else. I start to do something else and then after like a minute my mind wanders to us and where I am supposed to be right now!
Knight_Ctrl Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 no, you are not suppose to be there, if you were things would have turned out better for you. You'd be together and out on that ship right now. Where you are suppose to be right now is where you are. Things didn't work out with you and her, thats to bad man I know how it feels and I am sorry. But right now the only place you're suppose to be is right in front of your computer listening to advice from people who know what your going through right now. Take care bro.
lovingalways Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 Here Hope that makes you feel a bit better.
saturnfell Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 Ok, I watched that clip, made me a bit sad... How about this one, this one will definitely make you feel better, trust me:
lovingalways Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 Why would that make you sad Saturn?! I always smile when I watch it. LOL... Don't ask me why. But why did it make you sad??? Haha
lovingalways Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 I know! You should watch "Along Came Polly" LOL... I find that movie ridiculously funny. I'm feeling a bit down myself though. So I'm trying to think of stuff to make myself feel better as well. Ok Watch this video: this cracked me up
starzphalling Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 whatever you do, DONT watch Chasing Amy....i have made this mistake already today....
Author RM0123 Posted January 6, 2009 Author Posted January 6, 2009 Thanks for the clips. I do have to agree with Saturn that the Grey clip did make me kind of sad. I like the Carrie and Big clip. A part of me feels the exact same way she does. How long and how many times can you keep letting a man back into your life. (One bad thing though is that in the Sex in the city movie they end up getting married ) Gives me some hope
lovingalways Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 I'm trying to cheer everyone up and myself, even though subconsciously I'm hoping the guy I like will call me tonight. How pathetic!!! RMO: Wish I could be there for you tonight and maybe take you to some Irish bar to look at hot Irish men. They lift up my spirits. Haha
Knight_Ctrl Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 damn, now im freaking out.........I walk out of my work and I see my ex's new b/f drive by....instant rage, and tonight is the first night in like 2 weeks im going to be alone.........damn...=*(
saturnfell Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 Thanks for the clips. I do have to agree with Saturn that the Grey clip did make me kind of sad. I like the Carrie and Big clip. A part of me feels the exact same way she does. How long and how many times can you keep letting a man back into your life. (One bad thing though is that in the Sex in the city movie they end up getting married ) Gives me some hope I used to watch these clips 1,000,000,000,000 times a day. No joke. Ok, watch this one, this will make you feel better: I have been watching Along Came Polly a lot lately!
saturnfell Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 I'm trying to cheer everyone up and myself, even though subconsciously I'm hoping the guy I like will call me tonight. How pathetic!!! RMO: Wish I could be there for you tonight and maybe take you to some Irish bar to look at hot Irish men. They lift up my spirits. Haha Can I join the party?
lovingalways Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 Can I join the party? Hahah. YES!!! The more the merrier! Honestly, there is something about these Irishmen that drives me crazy! Like, they're so laid back and know how to have fun. I have tons of Irish guys as my friends and damn, they know exactly how to make you feel good about yourself or make you laugh or they do something sporadic to make you feel incredible!!! I don't know. I should stop dreaming. LOL... I know that. But I would rather dream right now than be in this sad reality.
Author RM0123 Posted January 6, 2009 Author Posted January 6, 2009 I used to watch these clips 1,000,000,000,000 times a day. No joke. Ok, watch this one, this will make you feel better: I have been watching Along Came Polly a lot lately! Doesn't it just tick you off that he didn't stop her and say something. What is wrong with men!!
californiadreaming Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 I thought I had it bad at one point! You gotta get a hold of yourself. You are doing too much. You need to chill out, Focus on NC, and do something. Sitting around crying is only healthy for like 10 to 20min a week. When I feel like I am going to cry, I just talk to myself. Try it. Talking to yourself helps. Get off the computer and take a drive. I live in Los Angeles so I can drive for hours and never see the same thing. That helps me alot too. hmm.. Go to the library or book store. and best of all Go to bed. Either way your buggin out. You need to chill.
lovingalways Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 I thought I had it bad at one point! You gotta get a hold of yourself. You are doing too much. You need to chill out, Focus on NC, and do something. Sitting around crying is only healthy for like 10 to 20min a week. When I feel like I am going to cry, I just talk to myself. Try it. Talking to yourself helps. Get off the computer and take a drive. I live in Los Angeles so I can drive for hours and never see the same thing. That helps me alot too. hmm.. Go to the library or book store. and best of all Go to bed. Either way your buggin out. You need to chill. You drive? I roof jump. More exhilarating!
saturnfell Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 Doesn't it just tick you off that he didn't stop her and say something. What is wrong with men!! He didn't stop her because his ego got in the way. He eventually realized.
lovingalways Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 Doesn't it just tick you off that he didn't stop her and say something. What is wrong with men!! Hunny, men don't think the same way we do. He is NOT going to tell you when he's in love with you (I'm a prime example... claims he's not in love, BUT looks at me as though he is and takes care of me as though he is! ). And he is definitively going to realize LATER what he has lost. Sad, but true.
Author RM0123 Posted January 6, 2009 Author Posted January 6, 2009 Everyone you have to watch this clip! I wish I could find the end of it though. It has such an amazing point at the end that we all are talking about.
not_a_happy_camper Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 I'm trying to cheer everyone up and myself, even though subconsciously I'm hoping the guy I like will call me tonight. How pathetic!!! RMO: Wish I could be there for you tonight and maybe take you to some Irish bar to look at hot Irish men. They lift up my spirits. Haha it's an irishman that has me visiting this board so frequently..............all the good ones have left the country!
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