Sneaking from behind...

[JoeNat]

So, I'm out Sat night with another couple. We are having a great time and enjoying the music and drinks when out of nowhere her ex comes from behind (we were sitting on some couches) and sneaks a kiss on her cheek. I had no time to react or stop it and either did she. Nobody saw him coming. I have a face like I'm about to kill and she looked stunned too. She apologized the whole night for him doing that but I was so pissed. He pretty much smacked me across the face without actully touching me. He knew what he was doing and told her later he did'nt mean to cause any drama and that he was drunk... I call bull**** on that one.

 

I guess I'm just ranting right now. Still pretty pissed it happened though.

[Geishawhelk]

She needs to tell him to never, ever do that to her again, or she won't be responsible for your actions.

 

That's if she's still in touch with him.

If not, let it go.

If he sees he can rile you to this extent, this will sooooo become a good game for him.

[JoeNat]

She did tell him that he should not have done that and that is why he said tell him I didn't mean to cause any drama and that I was drunk. It is just crap that is not needed. I am man enough to admit that I'm insecure with Ex boyfriends. So this hit home a little bit. At the end of the day I'm the one that went home with her and he saw that I was a younger, better looking guy. So he has to deal with that...

[BCCA]

I think ex bf's notoriously do stuff like that, if for no other reason than to cause a little jealousy from the new guy. I can remember running into one of my ex's ex's at a bar, and everytime I looked over, he was trying to give her a hug or something, and he kept giving me the evil eye. I was pissed, but didnt say anything to my ex because I wasnt going to get involved.

 

He was a douche for that, plain and simple. But what can you do? Just let it go.