d0ll Posted January 5, 2009 Posted January 5, 2009 What are some signs that a guy likes you as more than a friend?
Geishawhelk Posted January 5, 2009 Posted January 5, 2009 If he buys you a ring and rips your knickers off, he's in to you. If he just rips your knickers off, he's a player. For goodness' sake! How can we tell with no other clues from you? can you give us any other info, or is that it?? :laugh:
carhill Posted January 5, 2009 Posted January 5, 2009 If he asks you on a date and smiles when you say yes Seriously, as many signs as there are men. We're all different. Mine typically are that I show interest in a lady's world, that being her interests and perhaps personal effects. Body language is more forward, but not sexual. I look in her eyes a lot. Another man will be completely different, most likely. The common denominator is, if the man is available (single and unattached) and he asks you to join him alone for a social interaction and wants to know when he can pick you up, and it's a Friday or Saturday night, it's a date and he finds you attractive as a potential romantic partner. I socialized with my female friends prior to getting married and we'd always do things last minute ("hey, what's up, wanna catch a bite/movie/gig, etc"?) and nearly always go 'dutch' or switch off paying for each other. Your NYE guy is a friend IMO.
Author d0ll Posted January 5, 2009 Author Posted January 5, 2009 If he asks you on a date and smiles when you say yes Seriously, as many signs as there are men. We're all different. Mine typically are that I show interest in a lady's world, that being her interests and perhaps personal effects. Body language is more forward, but not sexual. I look in her eyes a lot. Another man will be completely different, most likely. The common denominator is, if the man is available (single and unattached) and he asks you to join him alone for a social interaction and wants to know when he can pick you up, and it's a Friday or Saturday night, it's a date and he finds you attractive as a potential romantic partner. I socialized with my female friends prior to getting married and we'd always do things last minute ("hey, what's up, wanna catch a bite/movie/gig, etc"?) and nearly always go 'dutch' or switch off paying for each other. Your NYE guy is a friend IMO. why do you think hes just a friend?
Geishawhelk Posted January 5, 2009 Posted January 5, 2009 Has he been in touch? Has he asked you for another date, to hang out? Has he texted you or anything? A guy who's interested probably would have done by now.
Author d0ll Posted January 5, 2009 Author Posted January 5, 2009 yeah on NYE he asked me if I wanted to go see a movie (which he'll probably forget about) other then that we've been in touch through FB (he's sick)
Geishawhelk Posted January 5, 2009 Posted January 5, 2009 "FB"...? Well, I think if he's serious, he'll try harder once he's better. Wait and see.
Author d0ll Posted January 5, 2009 Author Posted January 5, 2009 "FB"...? Well, I think if he's serious, he'll try harder once he's better. Wait and see. Facebook .. we don't text much & he only calls if we're making plans
You'reasian Posted January 5, 2009 Posted January 5, 2009 ...when a guy wants to share part of his life with you, beyond cordial hangin' out - I only do this with women whom are girlfriend potential or whom have been really, really good friends of mine. Say he invites you to travel/stay with him, asks you to a concert/event, wants to workout with you, introduces you to his closest friends/family etc.
Charles1978 Posted January 5, 2009 Posted January 5, 2009 ...when a guy wants to share part of his life with you, beyond cordial hangin' out - I only do this with women whom are girlfriend potential or whom have been really, really good friends of mine. Say he invites you to travel/stay with him, asks you to a concert/event, wants to workout with you, introduces you to his closest friends/family etc. I agree with this.
Author d0ll Posted January 5, 2009 Author Posted January 5, 2009 well he invited me out once with some of his friends but I wasn't able to make it I'm not sure that counts for anything
carhill Posted January 5, 2009 Posted January 5, 2009 Alone... alone... just you and he. Wish him a speedy recovery and invite him to call you when he feels better. Then, enjoy other opportunities
You'reasian Posted January 5, 2009 Posted January 5, 2009 well he invited me out once with some of his friends but I wasn't able to make it I'm not sure that counts for anything If he has expressed intentions of doing more activities with you, I would consider that a stronger indicator.
Author d0ll Posted January 5, 2009 Author Posted January 5, 2009 eh yeah on NYE he mentioned the movie & that was it.
Author d0ll Posted January 5, 2009 Author Posted January 5, 2009 btw this is the guy i'm talking about http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t175272/
Geishawhelk Posted January 5, 2009 Posted January 5, 2009 No, but this topic is kinda dead-end.... I mean, what is it you want us to say? We've said all we can, both carhill and I. wait until he's better then go from there.... What else?
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