jessy1 Posted January 5, 2009 Posted January 5, 2009 Ok so im new to the dating scene after being a long relationship. I wasn't really looking for anything but have been chatting with this nice new man at work recently. We were just friends as I barely know him. Infact ive only known him about 2 weeks!! ANYWAY he came into my work today and gave his number to a work mate and asked them to pass it onto me! I would like to call him but when do I do this? Is there a rule that you have to wait a certain number of days? I dont want to come across as needy but I do want to show some interest!! So what do I do??? call him tonight or wait a few days? Help!!!
openbook08 Posted January 5, 2009 Posted January 5, 2009 i have no idea, am also out of a longterm rship i just wanted to say good for you! its exciting! but id be curious to know too on the OFF chance anyone actually ever approaches me again rules??????? oh lord!
BCCA Posted January 5, 2009 Posted January 5, 2009 The rule is that there are no rules lol Personally, I would just put myself in his shoes; would you want to hear from him the next day? If so, give him a call. I dont think you can call too soon, honestly. If he came in gave you his number, he obviously wants you to call, so why play games? Just call when you feel like it. I dont think waiting any number of days changes anything.
Star Gazer Posted January 5, 2009 Posted January 5, 2009 I would not call a man who passed his number to me in such a cowardly way. I'd wait for him to ask for mine and call me first.
Trialbyfire Posted January 5, 2009 Posted January 5, 2009 If you want to show interest, pass your number back to him, the next time he shows up. Since you barely know him, are you certain he doesn't have a significant other? I'd check this first before proceeding in any way.
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