jennifer7777 Posted January 5, 2009 Posted January 5, 2009 Are they the same thing? This guy I am seeing texted me and said he cares about me more than he lets on and thinks about me all day long and misses me so much. This was after I told him I was really starting to like him. We have a slightly complicated relationship. He lives with his pregnant ex girlfriend, whom has no other place to live. I believe him and have heard conversations between them and what his friends and co workers think of her. So, we are taking it slow until she has the baby and moves out, within the next few weeks. We go out once a week on his day off, so I know he isn't hiding me and see each other on Friday or Saturday night after he gets done work. (2am). Another thing is he rarely initiates texts or phone calls. If I text him he'll text me 50 times that night. But if I don't text him, he sometimes will text the day with something snarky.
wateraholic Posted January 5, 2009 Posted January 5, 2009 IMO this sounds like a raw deal for you. Sorry. Sometimes when there is a child involved, that can make things really difficult. There is always that chance that when the child is born, it could rekindle old feelings. It’s a funny thing, child birth. I have a ten year old son and his mother and I were about to end it right before he was born. Well, it was like we feel in love all over again. I would keep your guard up and take things EXTREMELY slow here. Give him whatever space he needs if you’re that into him. Personally, I think it’s a bad idea to get involved at this point in his life. As far as like and care, well, that’s a tough one. I would think maybe care is the step before like, if you’re taking baby steps. Like I said, I would take a step back until the whole baby and ex thing goes. Just sounds like bad timing to me. Good luck!
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