lordWilhelm Posted January 4, 2009 Posted January 4, 2009 I've been on a few dates with this very special girl. It's end of semester this week and exam-time (grad-school), and then I won't see her until beginning of February when next term starts. Anyhow, planning in advance for February. Was thinking of getting tickets to a musical for Feb 14th (~$100/ticket, a month ahead seems to be the norm). So my question is, I'd like to give a her a Valentine's card when she gets back and enclose the ticket. But what do you guys (especially gals!) think is the best way to approach this -- would it more appropriate to ask first? I kinda feel that would spoil the surprise, but would she think I'm forcing her hand otherwise? Oy!
Confusedalways Posted January 5, 2009 Posted January 5, 2009 As a girl, I would suggest telling her you have made some plans for the 14th but it is a surprise! That way she's aware of the situation but you haven't ruined the exact surprise. I would love that! Keep her on her toes good luck!
Star Gazer Posted January 5, 2009 Posted January 5, 2009 How many dates have you been on? Would SHE consider the two of you to be approaching exclusive relationship status? From what you've provided so far, I'd be a little freaked by a guy making plans for almost 6 weeks from now, and expensive plans at that, and for Valentine's Day on top of that!
Author lordWilhelm Posted January 5, 2009 Author Posted January 5, 2009 That's an excellent point, thanks Star Gaze. Glad I asked here first.
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