shesmiles Posted January 4, 2009 Posted January 4, 2009 so yesterday I went to my " rebounds " basketball game, yes we still talk and my close friend came with her ex who happens to be my EX'S BESTFRIEND! he told me how yes he knew about everything TEXT, fb messege I sent my ex because he'd showboat it to all his friends but never give me a response and also that my ex wasn't worth it and that he doesn't show that he cares for me so why am I greiving and feeling so low? he also told me some dirty stories about where my ex has been ... all in all, it helped me realise who I DON'T WANT TO BE WITH ! and that would be my ex, he doesn't deserve me . I may be the only person who this helps but I find if I hear stories about my ex; sleeping with other people or see pictures of my ex; with his new girlfriend kissing and such... it helps me? helps me realise that I can do much better!!
Geishawhelk Posted January 4, 2009 Posted January 4, 2009 Good. Now, what you have to do is take so little notice, that when someone says - "Look what he's gone and done NOW!" You can flap your hand limply, yawn, and just reply "yeh, whatever".
EmperorR Posted January 5, 2009 Posted January 5, 2009 congrats your getting to the next stage, i'm sure it must hurt a little bit knowing how you poured your heart etc. into those texts etc. and he just flossed it to his friends like he's the man etc. Keep strong, keep no contact.
GodofNietzsche Posted January 5, 2009 Posted January 5, 2009 Things are so clear from the outside, but hard to see when you're in the situation yourself (weird, isn't it?). This friend of your ex thinks that he $ucked up, so why shouldn't you? Take it easy, and be your own best friend, because no one else will.
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