samsungxoxo Posted January 4, 2009 Posted January 4, 2009 Ok this might sound like a dumb thread but here goes. I might one day on a special occassion plan to wear a heeled-shoe. But see what about my boyfriend, he's only 1/2 taller (5'7 1/2) so the shoes would make me like tower over him, poor him:( , thus why I would only wear either sneakers or very low heels when going out with him. What would any of you girls do in my position, still wear your favorite heeled shoe and walk around with your now smaller man or keep wearing super low heels to not embarrass him. One time my friend's sister thought I was taller, bet that must have embarrass him, ugh.
exclusivelyME Posted January 4, 2009 Posted January 4, 2009 I know how you're feeling. I am unfortunately, a very tall girl (5'9") but looove wearing heels. I don't have a boyfriend though I do purposely NOT wear heels when I go to parties and such simply because if I do find a guy, I don't wanna be taller than him. I'll probably be taller than him anyway so heels would just make it worse. I think a couple looks better if the guy was taller but this is just a personal thing for me. Some guys feel the same as me but there are some others that don't care whether the girl is taller just as long as her likes her. I think you should try asking him if he would mind you wearing heels when you go out together but just be careful of your choice of words. He might be sensitive about it
Princess_in_love Posted January 21, 2009 Posted January 21, 2009 Maybe ask the guy what he thinks, some guys looove taller women. It seems like a challenge to them (so I've heard). Long legs wrapped around them... My ex and I were the same height, and I normally didn't like being taller so wouldn't wear heels. I did wear them on occasion, though, and would always ask him if it bothered him, he always liked it. *shrug* I say, wear what makes you happy and that will be the bigger turn on (seeing you happy in your own skin).
Trialbyfire Posted January 21, 2009 Posted January 21, 2009 Why not bring a sexy pair over to his place one night, try them on, walk up to him, put your arms around his neck and ask him if he likes them? This way, he gets a chance to experience the height difference in a positive, private environment. If he's enthusiastic, tell him you'll wear them the next time you go out!
D-Lish Posted January 21, 2009 Posted January 21, 2009 Just wear the heels you love! I asked the same question recently because I had a date with a guy I met online and he listed his height as 5'8". I am just over 5'7". I went with the heels and was taller, but he didn't mind at all. Go with what makes you feel good when you wear it.
johan Posted January 21, 2009 Posted January 21, 2009 I just re-finished my floors. It was tough. While I like how heels look on a woman, I just can't say it would turn me on now like it would have before.
mopar crazy Posted January 21, 2009 Posted January 21, 2009 I've dated guys the same height as me, but never shorter. If I would have worn heels and been taller, I wouldn't do it. Not b/c of him, but b/c I just don't want to be taller than the guy I'm seeing. I like the guy to be taller. It maybe shallow but it's just the way I am. TG I don't have this problem b/c I'm 5'5 and my H is 6'4. I would talk to him first. Try on the heels you plan to wear b4 you go out around him and see how he feels about it. He may not like that your taller but he may think you look hot in heels and not care. My cousin is about 6'1 and M a guy that is around my height. PPl were making fun of them at the wedding by bringing out a step stool during picture time as a joke.
IfWishesWereHorses Posted January 21, 2009 Posted January 21, 2009 I'm 1/2 " taller than my H. I love heels. I clean house in heels (sensible). When I'm with my H I always have on heels, I stand tall and confident with good poster. It doesn't bother me one single bit. I never think about it (unless we slow dance). It would embarrass me more to be slouchy or dowdy.
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