luverly Posted January 4, 2009 Posted January 4, 2009 I started talking to this guy that it's another country, which isn't a big deal because I'm moving there to go to school and am interested in staying. We started talking through email every other day for like a week, then we started IMing each other and that has been going on for like 2 almost 3 weeks. We talk for hours when we can. How long until we can talk on the phone? It wouldn't cost anything because we can talk on skype, so what do you think? This is new for me. I don't want to freak him out though.
birdie Posted January 4, 2009 Posted January 4, 2009 you are only mates so you can ask for his number any time. the sooner the better, hearing his voice might put you off him. happened to me
Author luverly Posted January 4, 2009 Author Posted January 4, 2009 you are only mates so you can ask for his number any time. the sooner the better, hearing his voice might put you off him. happened to me well the conversations started out flirty and are now pretty sexual, so not really mates i guess. does that change things?
birdie Posted January 4, 2009 Posted January 4, 2009 I'm not sure what word you could use to describe your status then but I see your point. you could still initiate the phone call if you are comfortable with that - especially as speaking to him as soon as possible is even more important now. it's one thing how he is building himself up on paper in your eyes, reality will be somewhat different.
Author luverly Posted January 4, 2009 Author Posted January 4, 2009 so i asked him and he said he'd email it to me and that he never has his phone on him. wtf? he really seems to be interested i'm not some young kid. is it too soon or just BS or the international thing?
Author luverly Posted January 4, 2009 Author Posted January 4, 2009 so i asked him and he said he'd email it to me and that he never has his phone on him. wtf? he really seems to be interested i'm not some young kid. is it too soon or just BS or the international thing? oh the reason he said he'd email it later is because he says he doesn't know it off the top of his head...he is a bit scattered. sigh i don't know.
Author luverly Posted January 4, 2009 Author Posted January 4, 2009 so anyone have any thoughts? i'm pretty confused.
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