preciousga Posted January 4, 2009 Posted January 4, 2009 My ex boyfriend and I dated for a year. We both moved on with our lives dating someone else. After three months he asked to meet me to discuss helping him with some business. Unfortunately, he tricked and raped me that day! I hadn't seen him since then. I had the police to contact him and they couldn't do much but scare him. I went to a New Year's party and he was there. After he saw me, he hid the rest of the night? Occasionally his current girlfriend would come to the front and dance, but i was shocked that he was hiding. I don't know if he is embarrassed of what he did to me or if he thought i would say something to his girlfriend? Him being scared of me made me feel like i was strong again!
Geishawhelk Posted January 4, 2009 Posted January 4, 2009 If you filed charges of rape, they would have done a lot more than scare him. What's the problem here? Leave it be. If you did nothing then, do nothing now.
Ariadne Posted January 4, 2009 Posted January 4, 2009 I had the police to contact him and they couldn't do much but scare him...Him being scared of me made me feel like i was strong again! Congratulations.
Author preciousga Posted January 4, 2009 Author Posted January 4, 2009 I was scared and didn't report it when it first happened, just wanted to put it behind me!
Author preciousga Posted January 4, 2009 Author Posted January 4, 2009 I was scared & embarrassed and didn't report it when it first happened, just wanted to put it behind me! After i told my friend, i went to police but there was no more evidence. So it would have been his word against mine.
Geishawhelk Posted January 4, 2009 Posted January 4, 2009 My advice to you would be the same. Move on and leave it be. be the bigger person, he's not worth it.
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