pau l Posted January 3, 2009 Posted January 3, 2009 well i have been dating this girl for about 4 or 5 months now, she has never officially been my girlfriend due to the fact that i didnt want us to become too serious because i was moving away about an hour and a half to go to college. well we still have kept in touch this whole time and whenever i come back into town we hangout and go on dates etc. from what i can tell she used to really like me alot and i did too, but mainly due to me, we didnt keep it at anything serious. recently im guessing she has just been getting tired of the whole thing and has sort of been giving me the cold shoulder a little bit(like not returning some texts, and being very short with me) and we just dont seem as close. well go figure now im getting torn up about the whole thing and i realize how mch i like her after it all goes to hell lol. i know i should have asked her to be my girlfriend a long time ago but that time is definantly not now. well to make the story short i have about 3 days left in town and im wondering what i should text her? dont wanna sound like needy or desperate but still want to win her back
You'reasian Posted January 3, 2009 Posted January 3, 2009 Is she the kind of woman looking for a relationship? If not, it is what it is and you appreciate your time together and move on.
vanilla87 Posted January 4, 2009 Posted January 4, 2009 Just ask her to go grab coffee and be honest with her, she'll respect you for being honest with her and maybe things will turn out different. I bet you she told one of her friends the situation and they told her to play it all cool and to not be affected by it, so the ball is in her court since she has you chasing her...
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