checkher150 Posted January 3, 2009 Posted January 3, 2009 OK, I was dumped a little over a month ago. My question is about masterbation. Is it normal for someone to do this more once they are dumped. Im talking like 3 times a day. My reasoning is I do it so I loose a strong sexual desire to have sex with my X again. Its odd because we started out really hot and good then went sort of stale and I we didn't have sex a ton. Now its all I can think about and I want to go back to the really hot sex we used to have. Ok, it gets more odd. Sometimes I watch a video we made while going out to perform these actions. Also, sometimes I imagine that this new guy she is seeing that is seperated from his wife and staying with his brother is just using her. I imagine him and the brother are using her and both are having sex with her and she is being used. Keep in mind, we never did anything like this. It was good sex with some kinky things but always just us. I just want to know if this is a normal thing or not.
Geishawhelk Posted January 3, 2009 Posted January 3, 2009 If you used to do it with other girlfriends, and you have a demonstrably extrovert and adventuorus sex-drive, maybe. But if this is unusual, and you've only started to do it since your split, and it's bothering you - then yes, it's highly unusual. I think maybe you should investigate counselling, because ths could turn into obsessive behaviour and jeopardize or sabotage any future possible relationships. Really, you should.
zilverenvlinder Posted January 3, 2009 Posted January 3, 2009 Don't worry about it. I do it all the time. Except I don't usually think about the ex, I usually just imagine Mark Wahlberg in his Planet of the Apes space outfit. :-D
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