Rikku Posted January 3, 2009 Posted January 3, 2009 I have been going out with a guy for about 8th months as of January 19th. We have been doing the whole long distance relationship thing and it was working fine for the first few months. I called him everyday and he liked it, we both were looking foward to it as our daily thing. Then for a whole week though, couple months ago, I couldn't call him since I had no money to buy a phone card. When I finally did he wasn't that all happy to talk to me and was playing his ''computer games'' instead. That's not the worse part...last time I seen him I left my little bag in his car, and I, Honest to god, don't smoke drugs, but I was holding onto a pipe for my friend which I TOTALLY forgot about! She gave it to me before I even met him and I just forgot about it. Now he thinks I do drugs and wasn't telling him...which is totally not true! All he did though was just give me a good lecture about it and how he doens't like the stuff and kept laughing sarcastically at me when I said it was someone else's. He didn't even come see me when I was in the town, I just ran into him and went to see him early the next morning. He gave me a ride downtown again where I had to catch my bus back, and told me just to give him a call when I'm in town again. That was couple weeks ago. I have called him twice since then...once to see if he's still mad, he gave me another little lecture and reminded me how he didn't like it. Second time was on New Years Eve, and everything seemed normal again, we were talking about what we were going to do for the night and who we're going out with, and where. Then he said ''Have a Happy New Years'' and we both said good bye. I'm not sure what to think. I enjoy being with him so much because I like how I am so truthful with him, right from the beginning. But now we came to a bump in the road. I don't like drugs either, and can understand his position, but I'm trying to get him to believe me! I am not sure how...Is is over or not?
EYECANDY000 Posted January 3, 2009 Posted January 3, 2009 Long distance relationship is one of the hardest relationships. But it seems like this guy has emotionally disconnected himself from you. Wow you two are dating and he didn't even come see you when you were in town? It sounds more like he's not buying the whole 'its my friends drugs and I was holding it for her' .. you have already explained yourself, so I'm not sure what more you can do to gain his trust.
dreamergrl Posted January 3, 2009 Posted January 3, 2009 I have to wonder if he's using this pipe thing as an excuse as to why he no longer wants to be with you. Perhaps it is an easier way out for him?
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