loveleen Posted January 3, 2009 Posted January 3, 2009 my ex's best friend(not that close anymore) and i have been getting close lately and he has always been there for me through the breakup and understood my side and felt that i didnt deserve to be treated the way my ex treated me.. and just now, he told me that he had feelings for me.. andd.. i have feelings for him too.. is this a bad idea to persue it? does it look like im using him to get back at my ex? because its NOT like that AT ALL! i don't know what to do. will this just make things even worse for me?
birdie Posted January 3, 2009 Posted January 3, 2009 I suppose it's down to morals at the end of the day. how would you feel if your ex did the same to you?
DSM-IV Tom Posted January 3, 2009 Posted January 3, 2009 NO you shouldn't pursue it. Hell no. Would you really want to be with someone who backstabs their friend and gets with their ex? Whether their close or not? That's still shady. But then again it's equally shady that you want to get with his friend. There are 8 billion people, I don't want to hear bs about him being the only guy you can have feelings for. You know it's wrong. You two may deserve eachother at this point.
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