griffinchicken53 Posted January 3, 2009 Posted January 3, 2009 people all the time say to cut your losses on a girl after such a time it doesn't look like it is going anywhere. but what if this is always the case? i had 3 dates with a girl when i was 16, and went out with a girl when i was 18 for four months. they were both setups and i'm certain it was out of pity. all attempts on my own have ended in rejection. the only girls that seem to be friends with me are through my guy friends, and none of them are available. i'm never around girls on a one-on-one basis and i haven't had a date in 11 years. maybe i should cut my losses on trying to date alltogether.
Ross PK Posted January 3, 2009 Posted January 3, 2009 Maybe. There'll be people who will say you should never give up. But I understand that this is causing you pain, and it is possible you could go throughout the rest of your life never having anyone. Accepting how things are and giving up can make you feel a lot better, you can put it all behind you, you can move on from it and enjoy what you do have in life. I also think that if you do this it could make it more likely that you will meet someone anyway.
Rikku Posted January 3, 2009 Posted January 3, 2009 I totally agree, just kick back don't worry about girls for a while, and just wait and see...the one you're waiting for will be right there. They say when you're looking for a other half, it's hard to find one, but when you're not, they're just EVERYWHERE. So try it out, just use this opportunity for your time, do all the fun things you can.
Author griffinchicken53 Posted January 6, 2009 Author Posted January 6, 2009 the only women i'm around are the ones who date or are married to my friends. i haven't dated in 11 years, i'm almost 30, had some medical issues, alot of debt because of that, i moved back in with my parents, can't find a decent job, so i feel as if i missed an opportunity. who would want a guy like me? seems like the longer it goes, the harder it gets. Most guys my age are alot more successful and better looking.
redant Posted January 6, 2009 Posted January 6, 2009 I wouldn't give up there are alot of girls out there looking for a good guy. But most important build yourself up. Find your passion. Girls like guys who are passionate about something. Also work on yourself have something to offer a girl. It takes work. Good luck.
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