Helioz Posted January 3, 2009 Posted January 3, 2009 Background: friend of 2 yrs whom i started dating recently for 2mths. We were going super fast and i fell hard for her. Anyway, our relationship ended over an argument, in which she decided to break it off. That was a month ago. Ever since she sent me the text "happy holidays, i hope yall have a great time, say hi to your parents for me" it just gave me a false sense of hope that she's over the argument and that she may want to talk, i sent her a merry xmas back but other than that i didnt break NC since the break up. God, i know i should take take the text for face value but hell, i cant fight these feelings of hope that she may feel like talking to me. Whats worse is that i know im lieing to myself. Why why whwy why!!
not_a_happy_camper Posted January 3, 2009 Posted January 3, 2009 Background: friend of 2 yrs whom i started dating recently for 2mths. We were going super fast and i fell hard for her. Anyway, our relationship ended over an argument, in which she decided to break it off. That was a month ago. Ever since she sent me the text "happy holidays, i hope yall have a great time, say hi to your parents for me" it just gave me a false sense of hope that she's over the argument and that she may want to talk, i sent her a merry xmas back but other than that i didnt break NC since the break up. God, i know i should take take the text for face value but hell, i cant fight these feelings of hope that she may feel like talking to me. Whats worse is that i know im lieing to myself. Why why whwy why!! i hear ya. same thing happened with me re text............take it for what it appears to be............not what you want it to be. she broke up with you and you have no control over what happens now, it's up to her to let you know if the text meant more.
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