starzphalling Posted January 3, 2009 Posted January 3, 2009 if he tries to keep the dog im there with ya. i'll help plan the castration. you don't mess with a girls dog.
LexiB Posted January 4, 2009 Posted January 4, 2009 As many of you know, I was just unceremoniously dumped at the beginning of December by my cheating lying boyfriend of two years. I just TWO DAYS ago got all of my belongings, furniture, TV, the whole shebang, out of our shared living space. For the first two weeks, I was a wreck. I didn't know how I was going to survive without him. I thought about killing myself. I called him numerous times and told him how much I either hated him or loved him, told him I wanted him back, cried about how I thought he was already screwing someone else...blah blah. After that I went cold turkey. Two more straight weeks of No Contact. This morning my phone rang at about 6:00 am. It was him. I answered. This is what I got. An earful of a crying ex boyfriend and blah blah blah. "I still love you, I made a mistake, this is killing me. Maybe we just moved in together too fast. I think we can still be together but live apart. This is too much for me to handle. :sob sob: Do you think that maybe later we can just hang out or something?" I listened to him for a good fifteen minutes. I responded with, "Mm hmm" and "Uh huh". And then after he asked if we could hang out or something, I replied with these exact words: "God, no. Hell no. You call me back in six months and maybe we can be friends, but I will never be with you again." Click. He called back and left a message, but I didn't even listen to it. DELETE. Good bye. Have a nice life. Holy sh*t. Now THAT is how you handle a breakup! Kudos girl - you're my new hero
SilverLining Posted January 4, 2009 Posted January 4, 2009 Next time my douchebag of an ex calls me...I'm going to say those words. I hope I can be as strong as you.
FeedingOnFever Posted January 5, 2009 Posted January 5, 2009 HELL yeah! Jumping on this thread to dish out that congratulations! Way to go! That was a beautiful balance between being tough and stern with him, but not cussing him out randomly and making yourself look instable. Instead you have shown him that you are so "together" that you can listen to him b*tch and moan with the patience of a saint, and let him know without a shadow of a doubt that he is out of your life as a romantic interest. Talk about being the bigger person there!
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