39388 Posted April 26, 2009 Posted April 26, 2009 Still going strong with Mr Right, in love, and so happy! :-) That is wonderful news! After all the feelings of hopelessness just a few months ago, you found love.
Author hotdancer2009 Posted June 1, 2009 Author Posted June 1, 2009 Guess what? I just got back from a trip to Hawaii with Mr. Right. We had a great time and are so in love. I met his parents last night and they loved me. His dad went on for fifteen minutes about how wonderful I am! You want the big news? We are going shopping for an engagement ring TONIGHT!!!! Thank you to all of those on LS who helped me; I couldn't have gotten this far without your advice. And for those who had doubts? Watch me and Mr. Right get married! I will keep you all posted!
xpaperxcutx Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 Guess what? I just got back from a trip to Hawaii with Mr. Right. We had a great time and are so in love. I met his parents last night and they loved me. His dad went on for fifteen minutes about how wonderful I am! You want the big news? We are going shopping for an engagement ring TONIGHT!!!! Thank you to all of those on LS who helped me; I couldn't have gotten this far without your advice. And for those who had doubts? Watch me and Mr. Right get married! I will keep you all posted! But you guys haven't even dated that long. Isn't getting married jumping the gun a little?
Phateless Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 Guess what? I just got back from a trip to Hawaii with Mr. Right. We had a great time and are so in love. I met his parents last night and they loved me. His dad went on for fifteen minutes about how wonderful I am! You want the big news? We are going shopping for an engagement ring TONIGHT!!!! Thank you to all of those on LS who helped me; I couldn't have gotten this far without your advice. And for those who had doubts? Watch me and Mr. Right get married! I will keep you all posted! What's the big rush? Where's the fire? This is really fast... why not move in together first? I have a theory but you're not gonna like it. Are you guys getting married just so you can have sex? You did meet him at church...
Soul Bear Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 WOW......Im not impressed at all. I think that was very, very very low of you....ALSO, i think you will find out shortly that you made the biggest mistake of your life, and before you know, it will be to late to fix it with the real Mr right. I feel SOOO sorry for your ex. I hope things do work out for you, but you really need to realise what you did. Infatuation, Infidelity, Lust... You also had an EMOTIONAL AFFAIR against your ex whilst you were with him. And you feel good about yourself????!!!!
Dexter Morgan Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 Is it any wonder she is getting married so quickly after the high school sophomore posts she has been writing? something isn't right with her, I give the marriage 2 years tops.
xpaperxcutx Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 Is it any wonder she is getting married so quickly after the high school sophomore posts she has been writing? something isn't right with her, I give the marriage 2 years tops. Dexter, I never took you for the optimistic type. I have her on the half year, 8 month mark. Depending on divorce procedures.
Dexter Morgan Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 well once her current relationship with "Mr. Right" starts to get some age on it, she'll be looking to better deal him just like she did with the last guy.
Author hotdancer2009 Posted June 1, 2009 Author Posted June 1, 2009 We aren't rushing. We plan to move in together and get engaged in August and then get married in a year.
Soul Bear Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 Not rushing??? You dumped your ex for this guy after only knowing him for a few weeks!! In Fact, you accepted his asking you out while you were STILL IN A RELATIONSHIP!!! My ex did the same to me, she crashed and burned Yet another example of religion overthrowing the balance on peace and harmony. This is just another reason why I dont agree with religion I think you will find out that indeed-Even the greenest of grass on the other side of the fence may have a smelly turd in it.
xpaperxcutx Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 We aren't rushing. We plan to move in together and get engaged in August and then get married in a year. Then why the need to buy a wedding ring. It's like you're trying to confirm to yourself that you have Mr. Right when in fact a marriage doesn't necessarily secure you happiness.
Dexter Morgan Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 We aren't rushing. We plan to move in together and get engaged in August and then get married in a year. yes, you are rushing, you have decided only within a month or so that you are getting married. but don't you have to be 18 to marry?
hoping2heal Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 Leave. If you are confused, that's fine but at least tell him you're confused and tell him why and let him decide what to do. Don't do all this behind his back and make a decision for him to which he has no part of (I.e, you run around fancying another man secretly and weighing how it all works out great for YOU, while he spends his love and devotion on you thinking he has this comitted partner and is in a relationship that is not the same relationship you're in.) He may understand, he may not but if you two plan to marry, he deserves to know that you aren't comitted to him. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and we are planning to move in together in six months. We love each other very much and are close friends and lovers. It's going well as bf/gf but we have different religious and spiritual beliefs which is becoming more of an issue as we near closer to marriage. I met another guy (seems perfect in all ways..kind, intelligent, successful, fun, handsome, etc. and importantly, same religion) and we hit it off and he asked me out. I said yes but that I'm busy for the next couple weeks...to give me time to think about how I want to handle this! I don't want to break up with my boyfriend yet but I want to keep my options open. What do I do? (In the past I have dated guys behind my bf's back and not told either party the truth, which was extremely awkward. In my book, that's not cheating since I never kissed or touched them...but still slimy.)
39388 Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 Guess what? I just got back from a trip to Hawaii with Mr. Right. We had a great time and are so in love. I met his parents last night and they loved me. His dad went on for fifteen minutes about how wonderful I am! You want the big news? We are going shopping for an engagement ring TONIGHT!!!! Thank you to all of those on LS who helped me; I couldn't have gotten this far without your advice. And for those who had doubts? Watch me and Mr. Right get married! I will keep you all posted! I'm very happy for you, but do be careful. It is very quick as everyone notes, but the it is up to you and him when to be engaged and when to marry. Remember that it is a lifetime commitment. Ignore the posts that predict the end of your marriage. They are laughable at best. Time will tell what happens. I'm hoping it works out for the long term between you and him. Don't forget the rest of your life outside your relationship. Are you happy even when he is not around? I know you are getting tons of happiness from him, but are you getting happiness from yourself and your friends and your non relationship activities? Make sure to keep your life balanced. Good luck!
Soul Bear Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 yes, you are rushing, you have decided only within a month or so that you are getting married. but don't you have to be 18 to marry? I did notice that the OP has never revealed her age....even when questioned
xpaperxcutx Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 This is a joke thread right? for 18 pages? oh god.
39388 Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 I did notice that the OP has never revealed her age....even when questioned She states that she is in her 20s and in grad school in another thread from months ago.
Author hotdancer2009 Posted June 1, 2009 Author Posted June 1, 2009 Thank you 39388! Mr. Right and I are confident with our engagement and marriage timeline. I understand that from the outside it seems like 2.5 months is a short amount of time, but we feel like we have already known each other for a lifetime. We have been seeing each other almost every day over this period, and were together 24/7 for two weeks while on vacation. Meeting his parents really sealed the deal, because everything felt so natural with them and I realized that I really do know him as well as I think I do. We have talked about all issues, from finances to values to children to religion, and we agree on everything. We love each other very much and bring out the best in each other...and infinite happiness! We are truly soulmates. We have no doubts that we are meant for each other. I feel that given all of this and given our age (mid 20s for those who are wondering), a one year engagement is reasonable. This will give us time to get used to living together before we get married. And yes, I am gaining happiness from friends, dance, school, etc. as well. Everything is falling into place!
Soul Bear Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 She states that she is in her 20s and in grad school in another thread from months ago. Sorry, i didnt read it all, the opening post was enough to set alarm bells ringing in my head:p
Trialbyfire Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 We are going shopping for an engagement ring TONIGHT!!!! We aren't rushing. We plan to move in together and get engaged in August and then get married in a year.It's only May. Why are you going shopping for a ring now but not getting engaged until August?
Dexter Morgan Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 I don't think this guy really knows what he is getting himself in to.
Author hotdancer2009 Posted June 24, 2009 Author Posted June 24, 2009 He proposed on Sunday! The ring is beautiful. We are getting married next summer. Yay!
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