4givrnt4gtr Posted January 2, 2009 Posted January 2, 2009 Ive just started dating this guy, and so far everything is great. However, Im kinda nervous because honestly, I cant take my hands off of him! The problem with that is that he told me he doesnt want to always be in bed and stuff, that if we do that we wont make any real connection. (Isnt that my line??? ) Anyway. Im just worried that my constant touching and wanting to kiss him may turn him off. What do you guys think? specially males? does a girl who wants to kiss you and be in physical contact a lot of the time you are together turn you off?
kizik Posted January 2, 2009 Posted January 2, 2009 Yes, clingy-ness and/or neediness are BIG turnoffs. Maybe you should show him that you can exist without his affections. Sounds like a pretty smart guy to be avoiding sex, too. He knows once he f*cks you, you'll be even MORE of a leech.
prettybaby Posted January 3, 2009 Posted January 3, 2009 Can't really generalize all guys, but your man clearly told you he wants to take it slow, so in your specific case: yes, I think it's most likely a turn off.
Author 4givrnt4gtr Posted January 3, 2009 Author Posted January 3, 2009 Well actually we've had sex, just recently. I guess thats whats making it so hard for me to stay off of him. Its weird, cuz he is very affectionate, just that say we're watching tv, and i just cant stop touching him. But then I realize it might annoy him so i stop, and then he starts touching me. It throws me off a bit. I guess im just nervous of liking him more than he likes me, despite the fact that he chased me for 2 months before I agreed to date him. I wonder how Can I avoid that? I feel like if I like him too much he's gonna stop liking me...does that make sense?
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