PcPaNGELdUSTt Posted January 2, 2009 Posted January 2, 2009 about 3 weeks ago i was seeing this girl and we go into a little fight and she was all idk if i want to be with you and what not. after that she ignored me for 3 days. so me being me i went to her house and walked into her room. of course i begged her not to go and so on she told me i was never going to see her again and so on. i finnally left feeling numb as ****. after that we would fight in txts or w.e or i would ask if i could see her the answer has always been no. the other night i asked her if i could see her one last time, i asked her if wanting to see the most imp. thing in my life before completely letting go was to much to ask. she told me she was talking to someone and didnt think he would like her to see her ex. fine, i completely stopped txting her for about 4 days. well about 2 nights ago i get a txt that says hey at about 1 in the morning. i didnt reply. on new years i was drunk and couldnt hold back on wanting to know what she wanted. i txt her and asked what she wanted last night and she said she wanted me to pick her up. i replied with an i bet and i went to sleep with out another txt. last night about 6 pm i get a txt that says hey. she asked me if i was mad last night and i said i guess not if you were serious she said she was. she said if i didnt want her to txt me she wouldnt. i asked her if i could see her and she asked when, i said tonight and she said she could hang out monday. I really have no idea whats going on. whats is she thinking?
FF84 Posted January 2, 2009 Posted January 2, 2009 What's she thinking? What are YOU thinking? She's made it clear she doesn't want you, why persist with this nonsense? Move on, drop from your life, show her you don't need her and take control. How old are you two?
Geishawhelk Posted January 2, 2009 Posted January 2, 2009 She's thinking; "ker-doing! Ker-doing! ker-doing!" Bouncing you off her bat like a rubber ball. Forget this, it's poison. try some good living for a cahnge and never ever rise to the bait again. It;s a senseless thing to do, and just brings you grief, confusion, heartache, and to forums like this one, to ask questions like "what is she thinking?" when it's pretty obvious that a thought-process is totally absent.
Author PcPaNGELdUSTt Posted January 2, 2009 Author Posted January 2, 2009 i was afraid of that answer. were both 19. i did tell her last night that this was ****ed up and stupid and that im better then that.
Geishawhelk Posted January 2, 2009 Posted January 2, 2009 Well hit 20 grinning, dude. Grow out of this nonsense. If you're better than that, go back to square one, and start NC again. For good. Please?
Author PcPaNGELdUSTt Posted January 2, 2009 Author Posted January 2, 2009 okay but whats the point of her telling me to stay out of her life and that shes happy and then go and txt me? why would she waste her time?
Author PcPaNGELdUSTt Posted January 2, 2009 Author Posted January 2, 2009 i know you guys are right. but ****.
Geishawhelk Posted January 2, 2009 Posted January 2, 2009 okay but whats the point of her telling me to stay out of her life and that shes happy and then go and txt me? why would she waste her time? Because she knows it rocks your pram. Even if it's not her conscious intention, even if she'd never admit to it, even if she flat-outright denied it - it feels good to have someone bounce around for her. So stop bouncing.
Author PcPaNGELdUSTt Posted January 2, 2009 Author Posted January 2, 2009 i know im going to get show down for this but it will help to read the answer from someone. what if she does really miss me i mean esp if shes talking to someone you would think she would just let me go, and move on with him?
Geishawhelk Posted January 2, 2009 Posted January 2, 2009 I'm sorry, it's me again. I think she may be either testing the waters, to see that she's still got your attention, or (if there is someone else) she's just ensuring you're on the back-burner, in case her current venture goes t*ts-up.
Author PcPaNGELdUSTt Posted January 2, 2009 Author Posted January 2, 2009 so theres absolutely no chance that she misses me.
FF84 Posted January 2, 2009 Posted January 2, 2009 so theres absolutely no chance that she misses me. She might miss you. But that doesn't mean she misses you enough to want to be with you again. And she'll never truly miss you if you never go away. If she wants you, she'll let you know.
Author PcPaNGELdUSTt Posted January 2, 2009 Author Posted January 2, 2009 and everytime i threaten to leave her life completely or go nc she always plays this i want to txt and hang out game.
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