vnqsh2001 Posted January 2, 2009 Posted January 2, 2009 I once dated a girl I met online. We had hooked up through a dating website. Anyway, once we started meeting, she started offering suggestions for other girls I might want to meet. She and I had a great time together. The sex was incredibly passionate, but do you think she was trying to say she wasn't interested in a relationship with me or do you think she was testing my fidelity? By the way, the relationship didn't work out because she had some major trust issues. At least, I think that was why, but I'm not so sure now. This is all in the past, but I still find it fascinating to figure out the female mind.
Confusedalways Posted January 2, 2009 Posted January 2, 2009 Sometimes I say things like that just so the guy reassures me that he doesn't want them, he wants me. I don't really do it on purpose, but i'm just starting to understand my own mind . Maybe she was doing that?
Author vnqsh2001 Posted January 2, 2009 Author Posted January 2, 2009 Sometimes I say things like that just so the guy reassures me that he doesn't want them, he wants me. I don't really do it on purpose, but i'm just starting to understand my own mind . Maybe she was doing that? Ok, thanks. That's helpful. If it's so difficult even for you to figure it out, imagine how much harder it is for us guys. That's why I don't get why women expect men to read their minds.
LostNLonely Posted January 2, 2009 Posted January 2, 2009 Women...flakier than pie-crust...nuttier than squirrel t*rds...which reminds me of an old ditty a friend used to sing, it went like this..."wing-bat ding-bat wing-bat doo, there's absolutely no telling what's she's going to do or who she's going to screw"...eh hem, for what it's worth...
EYECANDY000 Posted January 2, 2009 Posted January 2, 2009 Sounds more like she is testing you. Just to see how u would react if she mentioned other women. Now, if she is constantly suggesting women for you then , clearly she's not intetested
zilverenvlinder Posted January 2, 2009 Posted January 2, 2009 Women...flakier than pie-crust...nuttier than squirrel t*rds...which reminds me of an old ditty a friend used to sing, it went like this..."wing-bat ding-bat wing-bat doo, there's absolutely no telling what's she's going to do or who she's going to screw"...eh hem, for what it's worth... LOL!!! That killed me. What are you smoking? Seriously. LOL.
Yamaha Posted January 2, 2009 Posted January 2, 2009 I would say she was testing you. Women test for all kinds of things to weed you out if you don't measure up. Most guys don't even know their being tested until it's to late. If you suddenly get dumped when you thought things were going good you probably failed one of her tests.
You'reasian Posted January 2, 2009 Posted January 2, 2009 I would say she was testing you. Women test for all kinds of things to weed you out if you don't measure up. Most guys don't even know their being tested until it's to late. If you suddenly get dumped when you thought things were going good you probably failed one of her tests. Testing sometimes comes across as playing games and that's the reason most guys don't follow through. We know when we love em, we'll make sacrifices for them (how hard they may be), we'll get up at 2am to pick up their drunk friends but at the end of the day we're not going disrespect ourselves with silly games.
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